Music is great because it relaxes the mind and allows us to think clearly. I find that listening to certain jewish songs that i can connect to on an emotional and spiritual level help tremendously in relieving lustful thoughts and feelings. It's like taking a deep breath (call out to dms1234) for the soul. I've actually found, that at different stages of my life, i connect to different songs. For example, there was a long time when i felt that i could really connect with the song Bsheim Hashem Benny Friedman. Something in the melody, and something in the words just spoke to me and i felt like i could relate to it.