david4043 wrote on 08 Jun 2010 21:12:


Sorry to hear that u fell. I will share with u a moshel that Dr. Twersky wrote in one of his books about slipping -If someone set out to mail a letter and on the way to the mailbox slipped, when he gets up he is still closer to the mailbox not back at his starting point.
What have u learned about the addiction until this point. What happened? Any triggers?
Any patterns? "Keep going and keep smiling"  to quote a famous Rabbi.

bs"d

thanks Yiddle2  and god bless you !!!

bs"d

thanks yedidya aleph  and god bless you !!!

its been a long time since i heard from you it's good to hear you!!!

HOWS IT, MY FRIEND?

David,

Just finished reading your thread. I'm very impressed by your positive attitude! Keep on posting and much Hatzlocha!

Bestrong

hi david and if you'd like to, PM me or maybe just post, I am curious how yer doing....ciao!

bs"d

i am doing fine try not to be much with the camputer . i'm  clean since 'rush hodesh elol'  a good time for a new start . a happy ,healthy and clean year for you and everyone in GYE . cia !

David, Hi.  Just got caught up on your thread.  You've had some great breaks from "it", lusting.  And now since Rosh Chodesh Elul. What a beautiful time, what a beautiful life Hashem prepares for us.  This hishtadlus you make makes Hashem so happy.  He understands all about slips.  Never let the yetzer try to tell you that Hashem doesn't love you, NO MATTER WHAT.

Keep going.  You're doing great.

bs"d

thank you ! god bless you and all in gye with many,many clean days !!a happy and clean new year for all of us!!!

stand up and fight 'you in the army now

Hey, chaver - who are you posting to when you say that?

Good to hear from you again.  So, what's been happening.  I'm glad you're back.  Posting is good for us.  We're not alone.  Everyone reminds us to turn to Hashem.  It's all good.  Cool tov 8)

bs"d

אני לא מצליח להחזיק מעמד . אני נופל לעיתים קרובות .כנראה שאיאפשר לבד. כאשר אני לבד בבית אני תמיד נופל
הייאוש מנסה להשתלט ,אבל אני ינסה שוב רק עוד יום אחד

i posting to meself and everyone of us  but i dont fight good enugh!

i am 40 year and still cant control the lost!

sametimes you wont to die but itsnt a salution

may god have mercy on our souls and help us in our daily strugle!

Reb David, rosh chodesh elul was indeed a very good day to start life again, ur hebrew statement was very touching u r very well aware of what's going on & u r right its hard to stay focused alone, so why not set up a few guy buddies u can email while u r b"h not on the internet

od yom echad? Are you in any kind of program of growth so you get more and more free from the lust? Or are you just in a program of learning how to hold your breath longer?

Gevalt. Don't just get 'help'. Get the help you need. You need a G-d and friends who can help you gain progressive freedom, not a clothespin for the nose.