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Re: Hi. My first post. 30 Jun 2025 23:53 #438179

  • vehkam
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There is tremendous wisdom here.  Listen. Connect.  Implement some of the suggestions.  

Wishing you much success 
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Re: Hi. My first post. 30 Jun 2025 23:55 #438180

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WOW!!! YHaTzaddik! Your progress up until now is SUPER impressive!!! You are fantastic! Keep up the amazing work, and you'll be soaring in no time!
BTW, While I am married, I have had the pleasure of getting to know many bachurim, many of whom have really gotten this whole thing under control, so don't worry at all, you can too!!!
Looking forward to hearing more from you
Feel free to say hi. My email is 1gimpelovitz@gmail.com

Re: Hi. My first post. 30 Jun 2025 23:57 #438181

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My dear friend Yosef, keep in mind although a lot of ppl on here are married kmat all of us if not every married person here struggled since they were a bochur .
so we can definitely relate to you , although i hear your point of that it's easier in a way cause we're married...
Lifes short.... cover ground before ground covers you

Re: Hi. My first post. 01 Jul 2025 02:17 #438190

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yosefthetzadik wrote on 30 Jun 2025 22:46:
I see that almost everyone active on the chat sharing their story are married. Although it is a similar struggle, i do somewhat feel that a married person has somewhat of an advantage. Not that this is a competition. When I look at the 90 day chart, I see a trend that the higher you go, the less percentage people are singles. I set my eyes on that 90-day target, and it would be great to hear advice from singles how they reached that goal, and if in their opinion there is a difference between the struggles. 

Shalom Brother,

Might I suggest the following posts from our (soon to no longer be) single Magic Man:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/412126-Jewizard21s-Journey?limit=15&start=135#434605

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/412126-Jewizard21s-Journey?limit=15&start=105#430003

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/417787-nechama-for-the-singles?limit=15&start=15#424553

Hatzlacha!
Today is yesterday's tomorrow.
The yetzarim a person has the most trouble dealing with are his most powerful God-given tools for developing his potential and achieving shleimus.
It doesn't matter how big the number is, only that today it is going up by one.
There is no "just" when it comes to lust.

Please feel free to reach out. I'd appreciate connecting with you (via GYE, email, or phone - whatever floats your boat)
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