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Re: embarrassed to ask 07 Jul 2024 14:17 #416586

  • frank.lee
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ok, gotta think of the next step. Don't let this stop you... Are you comfortable telling your dad that you happen to see the computer, tried it out, and saw there is no password on it? Maybe when you asked if it was blocked, he was thinking something else... Did he think you mean filtered, or that you need a password to log in, or something else..

Re: embarrassed to ask 08 Jul 2024 01:19 #416634

i cant tell him and the computer is neither passworded or blocked or filtered 
ps: still kinda cool to see the YH at work

Re: embarrassed to ask 08 Jul 2024 01:43 #416635

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Could try making a commitment not to touch his computer at all and set up a knas for opening it and a stronger knas for logging in. Also can try reaching out to someone on GYE before using it to help as a deterrent. 

Others can elaborate on what has worked. 

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Re: embarrassed to ask 09 Jul 2024 17:32 #416755

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BenHashemBH wrote on 08 Jul 2024 01:43:
Also can try reaching out to someone on GYE before using it to help as a deterrent. 



This works pretty good. Text a friend whenever you will be using the computer, committing to let him know when you get off the computer clean. 
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Re: embarrassed to ask 04 Aug 2024 23:55 #418446

update coming home this bain HaZee i put on a knas for touching the 1st step on the way downstairs to the computer that I must stay 15 min after the following mincha and......................... i failed BUT THE COMPUTER WAS LOCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hodu hashem ki tov still did the knas but I'm one step closer to being free had a sudas hodah the next morning so thanks for all the help.
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