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new to gye 23 Feb 2024 18:19 #409042

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hi starting today 90 days ready to work hard 
any chizzuk?

Re: new to gye 23 Feb 2024 18:35 #409043

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realjoy wrote on 23 Feb 2024 18:19:
hi starting today 90 days ready to work hard 
any chizzuk

Welcome brother!
The journey  you are about to embark on is a well traveled path by many good people who have come before you. 
We are here to help you along the way. Feel free to post a little about yourself and your struggles . 
Hatzlacha!
May you slide down the banister of happiness and get many splinters of success up your career

Feel free to send me an owl, a howler, or even a Crumple-Horned Snorkack to Iamredfaced@gmail.com


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Re: new to gye 25 Feb 2024 00:59 #409054

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Welcome! Wishing you a lot of success!

I would suggest checking out some threads on the forum. There’s  unbelievable Chizzuk in seeing how so many good folks here have learned to break free and live in ways they always wanted to. You can too!! 

Hope lives here. 
looking forward to getting to know you better! 
Here’s a warm hand, 
Chaim Oigen 
Please feel free to reach out anytime at chaim.oigen@gmail.com

Re: new to gye 25 Feb 2024 02:06 #409059

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realjoy wrote on 23 Feb 2024 18:19:
hi starting today 90 days ready to work hard 
any chizzuk?

HI, welcome ! Please keep on posting honestly and daily. You will get to great places. 

Re: new to gye 26 Feb 2024 13:06 #409114

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Welcome! Try strengthening yourself with these great free resources:

1) The Battle of the Generation: a sensational free ebook that seriously gets you excited to fight and win this fight. It's a real game-changer.

2) The Fight: an incredible audio series from Rabbi Shafier.

Links are below in my signature.
Wishing you much success!
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation 
https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: 
https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Re: new to gye 26 Feb 2024 15:32 #409128

You got this! 
Check in daily so we can kvell  
Relatedly, I'd like to suggest changing the name of this subforum to "The Yiddeshe Nachas" forum.
We are not the same people we once were. We are not so locked into our urges that we have no choice. We can choose to give in or choose to win this battle today. We do not want to give in, the pleasure of giving in is false. 
With Hashem on our side our victory is inevitable; the only way we can lose is by giving up on playing the game.

Re: new to gye 26 Feb 2024 20:47 #409154

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Hi! 
Reach out and make some friends here. Read around. Start with Vehmak's thread
guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/375452-Work-in-progress#375452

Keep posting!
hope to see you around, my friend!
Feel free to say hi. My email is 1gimpelovitz@gmail.com

Re: new to gye 27 Feb 2024 04:30 #409176

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