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married and hurting 02 Oct 2023 15:56 #401786

Hi anyone...
I'm in a lot of pain... My wife is constantly rejecting me physically and it really hurts me emotionally. Somehow it's always my fault that she's "repelled" by me and it seems that, no matter how hard I try to please her, she does not feel like even hugging me. This has been going on for years, with therapy and all. When I get to the office, I just feel like escaping, but I know I am just hurting myself.
I'm still standing... but barely.
Thanks for listening and gut moed

Re: married and hurting 02 Oct 2023 16:01 #401787

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Ow! Really feel for you! Sounds really tough. We are all here for you! Reach out, make some connections, who knows what will happen:) Do you feel comfortable giving more details? 
Nothing good grows in the dark. 

Re: married and hurting 02 Oct 2023 20:31 #401788

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Welcome! Sorry to hear. If this is going in for years, was it always like that or were there good times? Do you have children? Any idea what changed?

Re: married and hurting 02 Oct 2023 22:07 #401791

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Hi and welcome
I can feel your pain and I hope I would be able to give you advice.
By sticking around you can get some chizuk.

1,  I see on your profile that have registered 3 years ago, where have you been all the time ?
2,  Have you done something in the past that keeps your wife away from you ?
 *  NO, It's not all or nothing, just every bit counts!
 *  I failed yesterday, and I might fail tomorrow. But just for today I'm going to give it a try.
 *  Being curios made me lust and get into trouble.

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Re: married and hurting 03 Oct 2023 03:53 #401800

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Hi! Welcome, my friend. We all feel for you, and we are happy you joined. We are looking forward to hearing from you and getting to know you a little better. The boys have brought up a few good points to think about, looking forward to seeing your answers. Please stick around, there's a lot to be gained beH
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Re: married and hurting 03 Jan 2024 12:20 #406254

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"Still Standing", are you still here?
Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com

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