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Story 10 Nov 2022 05:18 #387526

Hi guys, 
I've been struggling with nisyonos in shmiras einayim and bris for many years now, but I've never opened up about it or talked to anyone. I've tried many efforts over the years on my own, but I think I have a lot to gain from being part of a group of serious ovdei Hashem who are committed to growth in this area.
Hopefully Be"H we'll all be successful in being the best people we can be, and bring the geula from this nisayon and the ultimate geula shelaima.

Re: Story 10 Nov 2022 13:05 #387534

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HaBa Litahair wrote on 10 Nov 2022 05:18:
Hi guys, 
I've been struggling with nisyonos in shmiras einayim and bris for many years now, but I've never opened up about it or talked to anyone. I've tried many efforts over the years on my own, but I think I have a lot to gain from being part of a group of serious ovdei Hashem who are committed to growth in this area.
Hopefully Be"H we'll all be successful in being the best people we can be, and bring the geula from this nisayon and the ultimate geula shelaima.

welcome.  you are in the right place!  wishing you much hatzlocha. opening up and talking is a game changer....
vehkam7@gmail.com

guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/375452-Work-in-progress

The Battle of the Generation by Hillel S. has been a huge help for me.  Message me to find out how you can receive a free copy.



some of the experiences I write about may make it easier to identify me.  This is ok.  I trust that if anyone discovers my identity they will keep it to themselves.  If you do realize that you  know me, I am completely comfortable and welcome you acknowledging me and my struggle in person.

Re: Story 10 Nov 2022 17:07 #387543

Should be with lots of Hatzlacha!!

Re: Story 10 Nov 2022 17:34 #387545

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HaBa Litahair wrote on 10 Nov 2022 05:18:
Hi guys, 
I've been struggling with nisyonos in shmiras einayim and bris for many years now, but I've never opened up about it or talked to anyone. I've tried many efforts over the years on my own, but I think I have a lot to gain from being part of a group of serious ovdei Hashem who are committed to growth in this area.
Hopefully Be"H we'll all be successful in being the best people we can be, and bring the geula from this nisayon and the ultimate geula shelaima.

You are among an amazing bunch of guys now. I’m not speaking of myself, I’m speaking of the other people on this site who are all fighting these enormous battles themselves who still have the compassion and love for their fellow Jews that they give chizuk to people like me. I try to do that but I am not yet in the league of some of these guys! In any event, you have found the place where you can share anything. ANYTHING!! Without shame. Without fear of judgement. I have shared the experiences of my super-depraved life (before I was frum, thank G-d) and all I have received here is love and support. So welcome, new friend. Here you have a safe place. Here you have friends. Here you can gain strength. Here you will grow. Hatzlacha. I’m here for you if you want. I have found that being here for other guys is a tremendous help to myself. So bring it on, bud. 

Re: Story 10 Nov 2022 18:02 #387549

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Hi Haba Litahair,

Welcome aboard, You already took the first step towards success. stay here with us and be patient with urself.

Good luck   

Re: Story 11 Nov 2022 03:14 #387588

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Welcome!

Please check out these great free resources:
ebook- The Battle of the Generation
Audio series- The Fight
They're very good to start with.
See below in my signature for the links.

​Hatzlocha!
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge
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