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Never succeed 18 Sep 2022 16:53 #385799

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Hi to all

As much as i tried to stop ,, I never succeeded 

Re: Never succeed 18 Sep 2022 17:31 #385803

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Welcome to the team—we have all been there before and felt that way. I myself am trying to break through from a 15 year struggle and Baruch Hashem I am managing to break through with the help of g-d and all the wonderful people on this site (you can see my story on my thread, which is in my signature…). I encourage you to post about a little about yourself and to shop around the forum to see all the great content! I don’t know your story, but i can pretty much guarantee that there have been people on this site that have been in worse positions than you and they have managed to break free. So there is no need to give up hope!! By the fact that you came onto this site and posted shows that you are really serious about trying to make a change, which is a huge step in the right direction!! So, look around, post about yourself (after all it’s anonymous), and we hope to hear great things from you! 
-ftc

(Feel free to send me an email at any time, if you need someone to talk to someone. My email address is in my signature)
If you are in the same situation as me, a bachur who’s fighting every day to break free, feel free to reach out to me at hopeful1245@gmail.com. I can use the chizuk from other bachrim and im sure you can use the chizuk as well. We are all in this together!
My thread on the forum
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Re: Never succeed 18 Sep 2022 18:40 #385804

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Welcome. Can you provide more background information? What have you tried? What's your story?
If you are wondering why you can't stop masturbating even though you're guarding your eyes, it's because you're fantasizing.

Re: Never succeed 29 Sep 2022 12:40 #386090

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Success is NOT what counts, it's effort.

Re: Never succeed 29 Sep 2022 15:48 #386096

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YakovW wrote on 18 Sep 2022 16:53:
Hi to all

As much as i tried to stop ,, I never succeeded 

TRYING TO STOP is also considered success! 
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
feel free to reach out @  ahavayirah@gmail.com

Re: Never succeed 30 Sep 2022 00:01 #386103

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Welcome!

Please check out these great free resources:
ebook- The Battle of the Generation
Audio series- The Fight
They're very good to start with.
See below in my signature for the links.​

Hatzlocha!
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge
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