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Nocturnal Emissions 23 Mar 2021 00:27 #365903

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I have been having nocturnal emissions almost every night for the last week. I do not remember it being this frequent since puberty. Whatever I do it is every night, I am not looking at porn, I am not acting out, I do not know what to do. I sleep on the right side it happens, I try to relax before bed once again. I wear very loose underwear but once again I wake up in the middle of the night briefly and have an emission. I never acted out frequently since I got addicted to watching the filth. I will admit I was addicted to looking at it but I rarely wasted seed. I think in the last 14 days I lost more seed than in a year combined. I want to know if any of you have had similar experiences and if it stops after a while.

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 23 Mar 2021 01:16 #365907

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Completely relatable

Don't worry too much about it.

I was in a similar stage as you not too long ago...(it sometimes still happens but definitely not as common)

You can check out my thread if you want


Don't let it get you down or saddened it's normal.
I think the consensus is to completely ignore it.
"They say" it's a haskamah of sorts..
keep up the good work!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 23 Mar 2021 14:08 #365950

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One of the reasons for this might be the very fact that you're worried about it... As the  Tzemach Tzedek writes: 
ההרהור מזה גופא שמתירא ומפחד לנפשו שלא יארע לו קרי בליל יוהכ"פ זה שכיח טובא בעיוהכ"פ והרהור ופחד זה יוכל לפעול בטבע הקרי כמו הרהורי עבירה

And the Steipler quotes him as follows:
מה שאדם בא לידי טומאה בלא הרהור אין בזה שום עון כלל כי זה נקרא לאונסו רק צריך לטבול בבוקר. ודאי ובודאי צריך להזהר עד כמה שאפשר מהמתכלות בנשים ומכל דבר המביא לידי הרהור ומה שיבא ח"ו לידי טומאה אחר הזהירות אין בזה עון. מה שמכל דבר קטן בא לידי הרהור זהו רגיל מאוד בהרבה צעירים, ‏והעיקר לעסוק בתורה הקדושה ובמשך איזו שנים ינצל אי״ה מזה ורק שלא לבטל מדברי תורה כי ביטול תורה גורם לכל הרהורים רעים ח״ו. מה שראה קרי ביוה"כ אין זה כלום אצל איש צעיר שאין לו אשה כי חז"ל דיברו באיש כזה שמטבעו אינו עלול לזה ומן השמים סיבבו לו כן אבל מי שבא לו מכח טבעו אין כאן "ידאג" ואין כאן "מובטח לו" כו' כמבואר כ"ז בתשובת צמח צדק מליובביץ בסוף חלק חו"מ שער המלואים סי' מ"ב וכן ידוע מכמה גדולי ישראל שהורו כן והוא פשוט

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Re: Nocturnal Emissions 24 Mar 2021 22:31 #366048

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I feel like I am on the verge of viewing, looking for some motivation.

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 24 Mar 2021 23:23 #366049

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DON"T

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 25 Mar 2021 03:26 #366063

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Cesare wrote on 24 Mar 2021 22:31:
I feel like I am on the verge of viewing, looking for some motivation.

If you’re somewhat like me then I will assume that you don’t enjoy battling the temptation. It feels so strong and overwhelming and seems impossible not to give in. You wish the urge wasn’t so big and strong so that you’d have the ability to not act on it. But because it feels so strong and overwhelming... how about just give in and look to make my life easier... But hey... tomorrow we’re going to have this fight all over again. And the next day. Each time I give in I’m making the battle harder for myself. It’s so hard not to look when the temptation is so great. But i sometimes motivate myself by thinking that no matter how difficult the urge is now if I give in now tomorrow’s battle is going to be so much harder. I really don’t like things to be hard for myself so how about I say no now when it’s sooooooooo hard this way tomorrow’s battle won’t be sooooooooooooooooooooooooo hard. Hope this is somewhat helpful.

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 25 Mar 2021 13:54 #366075

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I was on the verge of it and quite literally covered my eyes closed the computer and went for a walk. I feel great now, thank you.

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 25 Mar 2021 19:25 #366081

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You're post made me smile! Great to hear the great news.
Just remember, the urge is just around the corner ready to rear it's ugly head. You can do it
Hatzlachah

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 25 Mar 2021 21:20 #366086

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Cesare wrote on 25 Mar 2021 13:54:
I was on the verge of it and quite literally covered my eyes closed the computer and went for a walk. I feel great now, thank you.

Heroic Gevura. You are an Adam Gadol of great strength.
Keep shteiging
Last Edit: 25 Mar 2021 21:22 by yeshivaguy.

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 30 Mar 2021 03:13 #366144

Very much relate and I had a similar issue a little while into my 90 day journey feel free to check out my thread for details (maybe on second or third page) 

At least for me it went away after about 10 days
Think about how good you'll feel if you say no to desire and compare that to how bad you'll feel if you say yes.

Desire is unique in the way that it is never fulfilled -  if you give in the desire comes back even more powerful in just a few days. Telling yourself that its ok because this is really the last time doesn't work because you are just adding new images to your head that will cause future falls.

The Joy of triumph over the yetzer hara is worth the effort it takes to win. It IS worth it! Keep fighting!


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Aiming to be better

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Re: Nocturnal Emissions 30 Mar 2021 03:14 #366145

Very much relate and I had a similar issue a little while into my 90 day journey feel free to check out my thread for details (maybe on second or third page) 

At least for me it went away after about 10 days
Think about how good you'll feel if you say no to desire and compare that to how bad you'll feel if you say yes.

Desire is unique in the way that it is never fulfilled -  if you give in the desire comes back even more powerful in just a few days. Telling yourself that its ok because this is really the last time doesn't work because you are just adding new images to your head that will cause future falls.

The Joy of triumph over the yetzer hara is worth the effort it takes to win. It IS worth it! Keep fighting!


My thread: 
Aiming to be better

Feel free to contact me at evedhashem1836@gmail.com

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 31 Mar 2021 02:05 #366205

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Was browsing some social media today and came across some immodest but not downright pornographic content. Was very tempted to switch to the hard stuff but I held.

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 31 Mar 2021 08:21 #366210

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Re: Nocturnal Emissions 31 Mar 2021 18:10 #366218

Well done!
Think about how good you'll feel if you say no to desire and compare that to how bad you'll feel if you say yes.

Desire is unique in the way that it is never fulfilled -  if you give in the desire comes back even more powerful in just a few days. Telling yourself that its ok because this is really the last time doesn't work because you are just adding new images to your head that will cause future falls.

The Joy of triumph over the yetzer hara is worth the effort it takes to win. It IS worth it! Keep fighting!


My thread: 
Aiming to be better

Feel free to contact me at evedhashem1836@gmail.com

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 02 Apr 2021 01:32 #366264

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I was looking at immodest women on media these last two days. It is not porn but images on media of women dressed very skimpily. It happened twice in the last two days where I was about to open a porn site but somehow I held. Should I mark it as a fall?
Last Edit: 02 Apr 2021 01:34 by Cesare.
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