Hello,

my name is anonymous Yoeli from willliamsburg,
thinking of starting to try sex toys, and don’t want it to be a conflict with my learning and davening, yeshiva life, doing the right thing as a yid, middos, I live at home and have a tv although my family doesn’t, I have a degree of ocd and started to have panic attacks a year or two ago.

my history: started in 7th or 8th grade with dial up speed, upgraded my cell phone to 3g in 12th grade, switched to a blackberry soon after, got an android, switched to iPhone around 3 years ago.

Hi Yoeli, 

It's great you came here and are open with us. It is a big step to be able to open up, and join this website. Everyone here is here to help and we are with you in this struggle

It is commendable you are cognizant of your yeshiva life, and are aware that the strugle does impede upon your life. But, why do you want to try these toys? what do you hope to get out of it?

I think you shouldn't do it, and instead try to figure out what's really missing in your life and try to make your life more productive.

I would be happy to discuss this with you at length, my email is 360gye@gmail.com feel free to email or chat with me via hangouts

Your friend,
360gye

Welcome to a great place. You sound like a broad minded intelligent guy. Stay connected. Hook up with some of the winners here. Do yourself a very big favor and stay away from the sex toys. They will never fill up the hole in your heart you are trying to fill. Hatzlucha.

Hey welcome!

Use out your opportunity to fix this issue whilst your still single.

Hatslocho

The last time I had a streak was Elul, a friend wanted to go to a club since those were opening up, and I didn’t get far since.

So let's get your friend who wanted the club to join GYE too. You can work on this together or individually. One thing is clear - a guy who wants to go to a club is in a lot of deep pain. Let's help him. Why should he suffer?

My friend knows what gye is

Nu? Hows it goin brother?!