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Hello - my name is... 02 Oct 2018 14:39 #335891

  • notgod
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Hello 
My name is boruch and I'm a sexaholic.
Thanks to Hashem, the 12 steps of Sexaholics Anonymous, my sponsor and the fellowship of SA I am gratefully sober for just over 3.5 years (for which I can never be sufficiently grateful).
If I can be of any help, I would be pleased to share any of my experience, strength and hope with you.

Re: Hello - my name is... 03 Oct 2018 02:08 #335895

  • moish u.k.
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Nice to meet you.
Well done Boruch.

Re: Hello - my name is... 03 Oct 2018 03:21 #335896

  • i-man
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Welcome!

Its always beneficial to hear from people how the were able to overcome and change themselves  please share away.

Re: Hello - my name is... 03 Oct 2018 08:45 #335908

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Sure - I will start with this:
I tried for many years to stop acting out. 
Some of the methods I used were: 
praying and crying to Hashem, devotedly reading the gye website and chizuk emails etc, employing the taphsic method: fasting (which I hated), paying fines (large ones too!), going to the mikva (sometimes more than once a day - which I hated even more than fasting), phone conferences etc) but I was never successfully clean for long.  I had plenty of 14/20/30 day streaks, but always fell in the end. 

It wasn't until I walked into a room of fellow addicts and admitted my utter defeat and the unmanageability of my life (step one) and got a sponsor to help me work the 12 steps that I was given the gift of sobriety.

Thank God my life today is completely unrecognizable from before, in all aspects.  In particular, I am generally lust free from all forms of pornography and have periods of time of genuine serenity; a gift given to me by Hashem one day at a time. 

Re: Hello - my name is... 03 Oct 2018 08:49 #335909

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:blush:Hi Moish

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