What I learned from 3 marriages that when you want to marry your second wife don’t bother jump straight to the third one because the second is always worse than the first!!!!
jokes appart
NOT ALL MEN OR WEMAN ARE MATERIAL FOR MARRIAGE
AND IT IS NOT RIGHT TO BRING CHILDREN IN THIS WORLD AND THEN TO DUMP THEM!!!!
I agree with the GYE handbook that marriage Doese not help sex Adiction it complicates it
counseling for us was just a plaster
it did not take care of the root problem
that is that a person has to be emotionaly healthy and a Mench before he marries
better each one work on their own problems with a good therapist and the the 2 therapists should work aut together to solve the issues that come up
unfortunatly today with the inflated gashmiut and limited time of parents to devote to the kids
most men are not real men and moust weman and men have all sorts of childhood scares that way heavy on the delicate structure of the marriage!!
may God have pitti on us
as far as I am concerned for moust people marriage is only a painfull trip that ends bad for all parties including the poor kids
Said that I still think that having children as also prescribed by the Tora is a very important aspect of life which cannot be ignored!!
and marriage is the only healthy and correct way to have them
In other words it is a catch 22
May God bring Moshiach soon and absolve is from this terrible dilemma!!
AMEN
