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Re: just trying to do the right thing 12 Feb 2020 16:38 #347307

  • Hakolhevel
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I don't know your exact situation, but I know by me when I get into a rut, I don't masturbate/ watch porn because I'm sad. It's just the other way around. I watched porn/masturbate, it makes me sad/angry at myself. So the only way I know how to deal with negative emotions is to.... You guessed it, watch porn and masturbate. It's very understandable, though it is pretty crazy. 



So if your like be, stop beating yourself up, you need to find a way to stop. Once you've stopped, you need to work on yourself internally, and hear how to deal with pain in general.



Just my experience.



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Re: just trying to do the right thing 12 Feb 2020 20:57 #347313

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Hakolhevel wrote on 12 Feb 2020 16:38:
I don't know your exact situation, but I know by me when I get into a rut, I don't masturbate/ watch porn because I'm sad. It's just the other way around. I watched porn/masturbate, it makes me sad/angry at myself. So the only way I know how to deal with negative emotions is to.... You guessed it, watch porn and masturbate. It's very understandable, though it is pretty crazy. 



So if your like be, stop beating yourself up, you need to find a way to stop. Once you've stopped, you need to work on yourself internally, and hear how to deal with pain in general.



Just my experience.



P.s you missed your signature "love yankel"

Yup.Yup very true. Thanks

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