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TOPIC: introduction 6458 Views

Re: introduction 03 May 2013 20:09 #206547

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Thank you i had the same haara its reuasuring to hear about so many other peaple who have gone throgh it and recovered

Re: introduction 19 Jul 2013 10:08 #212698

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Fallin in a rut

feelling like a nut

Screamin "GET ME ATA HERE"

But no one seems to care



Wana get on with life

feels like you cant

wana scream and shout

yell and rant



some times we must reallize

the answers in our hands

instead of asking others

ask yourself



Is this the life that i want

do i really wana rip my self apart

to run after this foollishness

and fantasy




so lets sart living life

the way its meany to be

and wtih that well be much happier

ohh youll see...

Re: introduction 22 Jul 2013 04:15 #212902

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Just how are you defining 'getting on with life", please?
Admin put these lines here cuz he likes 'em:
"The heart needs to be broken when will-power is not enough"
"Get off the 18-Wheeler and onto a tricycle!"
"The heck with me, what can I do for you?"
"I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons!"

Re: introduction 01 Sep 2013 17:19 #218065

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Dov wrote:
Just how are you defining 'getting on with life", please?

By writing poetry, poetry is good.
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: introduction 04 Mar 2015 11:31 #249926

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Maybe you are right TZ...he didn't answer the question, though it reaches right to the guts of his actual complaint.

Too often, we frum masturbaters sincerely believe our true problem is our 'yeitzer hora' and penises. (A rather bad combination, no? Makes you wonder what in the world Hashem was thinking!) Too rarely do we realize that our actual problem is our twisted priorities and goofy thinking about life.

But truly facing, admitting, and fixing those things is not very glamourous, at all. No 'koneh olamo b'sho'o achas' possible there...nu. So people would rather keep their eye on blaming Hashem - though they do not see it that way - and 'fighting the yeitzer hora. No wonder so many masturbating frum guys cry about having emuna problems and work so hard on getting their 'emunah' to beat this thing.

But there is another way, b"H, and many know it and use it one day at a time.
Admin put these lines here cuz he likes 'em:
"The heart needs to be broken when will-power is not enough"
"Get off the 18-Wheeler and onto a tricycle!"
"The heck with me, what can I do for you?"
"I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons!"

Re: introduction 23 Apr 2015 08:28 #252937

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Dov wrote:
No 'koneh olamo b'sho'o achas' possible there...nu.
etc....

But there is another way, b"H, and many know it and use it one day at a time.


Isn't the latter the explanation of the former? "There are those that acquire their world by living one hour at a time"
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