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Re: hello my friends.... 05 Sep 2012 02:57 #144587

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Gevura wrote on 04 Sep 2012 21:17:

I need to just do the actions that I am supposed to do, and let Hashem send me the feelings.


That is precious. It's called growing up.

Can't buy it for any money.

Thanks for sharing that. Illu lo banu ella lehashmieinu dovor zeh, dayeynu.
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Re: hello my friends.... 05 Sep 2012 16:20 #144615

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hi Gevura!
to echo Dov, you are walking the walk in addition to talking the talk. you know where you are up to and you are not throwing in the towel. kol hakavod.
KOMT!
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
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Give, Forgive
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The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
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Re: hello my friends.... 09 Sep 2012 07:06 #144792

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Hi Gevura,

Just checking in, really. I'm in one of those long dry spells, too. I love reading your posts. You are real, and somebody I always learn from. I haven't had the high for ages. Never mind. You remind me--na'aseh v'nishma. left foot right foot. KOT

Re: hello my friends.... 13 Sep 2012 18:17 #144981

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I just want to take this opportunity to wish the entire Oilam a Ksiva Vachasima Tova. I will not name names for I will surely leave out someone important. But each of you, in your own way, has helped me to have an amazing year, that I never thought would be possible. Without your fellowship and support I would be hopelessly lost and who know how desperate I would have been and how low i might have gone. You have no idea how much it means to me to have a group of people who know of my struggles yet accept me as person and as a Frum Yid who is trying to try his best.

May we all be Zoche to a new year in which Hashem grants us the awareness each day to submit ourselves to His will, to accept the task He has given us and take the actions to fulfill our mission.

A special thank you to Reb Guard, whose selfless devotion has made it all possible.

A Gut Gebenched Yohr, and KOMT!!!

Gevura!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: hello my friends.... 16 Sep 2012 05:57 #145029

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Omeyn!

Re: hello my friends.... 20 Sep 2012 18:21 #145108

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oon a gemar chasima toiveh
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Re: hello my friends.... 14 Oct 2012 05:39 #146084

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הוּא יְשׁוּפְךָ רֹאשׁ, וְאַתָּה תְּשׁוּפֶנּוּ עָקֵב...

(based on Sforno but I'm not sure it's what he meant)

Hashem is talking to the snake AKA the Yetzer HoRa. He tells him, if "he", i.e the person, wins, he will cause pain in the "head", in the beginning, but the end will be sweet. But if you, the YH, win, the beginning may be pleasure but the "heel", the end, will be pain.
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: hello my friends.... 15 Oct 2012 14:05 #146163

Gevura wrote on 14 Oct 2012 05:39:

הוּא יְשׁוּפְךָ רֹאשׁ, וְאַתָּה תְּשׁוּפֶנּוּ עָקֵב...


I was thinking this Shabbos another mehalech: The YH catches a person by telling him, "It's all over. You lost the game. You may as well give up." But the person can win over the YH by saying, "It's actually the beginning. Whatever happened happened. I am starting fresh, and not looking back. Today is the first day of my life, and I intend to make the best of it."

Amen, kein yehi ratzon!

MT

Re: hello my friends.... 17 Oct 2012 14:55 #146267

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180 days!!! (0x000000B4 for the geeks ;D )


Been getting frustrated, lonely, and slippy again but I'm just going to keep trucking....
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: hello my friends.... 17 Oct 2012 15:06 #146269

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Oh yeah, and I got to say Hallel again!!!!
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וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: hello my friends.... 18 Oct 2012 07:37 #146316

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180!
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komt
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Re: hello my friends.... 26 Oct 2012 15:28 #146783

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Keep on keeping on!

Re: hello my friends.... 28 Oct 2012 22:10 #146858

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Thanks for being there for me earlier today, Gevura.
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: hello my friends.... 06 Nov 2012 19:10 #147331

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!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: hello my friends.... 06 Nov 2012 19:31 #147335

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komt
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