As Dov mentioned, try to think of the solution, not the problem.  Make your life so busy with good, fulfilling things that you do not have time for 'the rest'.  This is what helped me break the addiction 4 years ago, and G-d willing it will help me now.

Hi

Thanks everybody and specialy to TheJester, you really explained it well to me, i also had a few good laughs.

btw about the c.v thing as i posted it i realized my mistake, i figured no one will pick on it. and you did :-)

btw
did you see my pm?

tshuvah5771 wrote on 23 Jun 2011 00:25:


Cool stuff

Here is where I see the power of words and writing.  It's not in the conscious, but rather in the unconscious.  Yes, things can look different when you write them...  But you can see a lot in the choice of words, the underlying assumptions, etc.  It's why I like poetry as a form of self-realization...  It works for me because I can "trick" truths out.  This is in no way to detract from the pshat, which is probably infinitely more powerful, but it is an amazing "spice" if you can do it.

For me, it is not writing that helps, but reading - today, tomorrow and next week.  I tend to edit a lot, because I write stream-of-consciousness by default.  Editing is an interesting experience, if you let it be.

Still - noticing where you chose to put the C"V demonstrates the power of reading what you have written.  That's all I wanted to draw out 

tshuvah5771 wrote on 12 Jun 2011 20:13:


Dear Teshuva;

Just a quick note from a fellow "Addict", In my opinion watching porn damages us more then MZL. You seem to dwell on the MZL rather then the Porn that you just see as a vehicle to the ultimate Sin, when porn, may be the same sin.

As a Frum Guy, you should know that Hashem will 100% forgive you, since you took the effort and time to come seek help, he most probably already did.

Good Luck, Wishing you the best!

jewishguy You hit the right button
most of the chassidim have this messed up

Chaim II wrote on 12 Jul 2011 19:57:


You're right