I can't be so allaborate now, but here goes.
I hope I'm clear, it's a bit complicated.
My RY wants draw an analogy to for example to a lo saaseh of shabbos.
Inorder for one to be chayov for baking on shabbos, one would have to put a cake in the oven, BUT, one is only chayov once it has baked, so if a goy took it out before it had a chance to bake, he is potur.
Now in a case where it did bake, so he is chayov, what did he do wrong?
Bake it?
No! He didn't bake it thhe oven did!
What he did wrong was to put it in the oven, but as I said before that's not good enough-it has to bake inorder to be chayov!
So you need both, putting it in the oven is the ma'aseh (deed) hoaveiro, and the baking is the kiyum (fullfilment) hoaveiro.
Same goes here, the fullfiment, kiyum of the mitzva is hearing, the ma'aseh (deed) of the mitzva is to blow.
Now, since you only fullfill the mitzva once you've heard, therefor the brocho is lishmoa, but it does not mean that blowing has nothing todo with it!
So the reason the one who blows must have in mind to be motzei is NOT for the Kiyum (listening) rather for the blowing- the ma'aseh,(just like I'm not chayov for baking unless I actually put the cake in the oven, so to Im not yotzai the mitzva unless I actually blow it!)
And if your thinking 'well he did not blow it, so how is he yotzai blowing from someone else??!'
Good question I'll explain later:)
But let if you got it so far.