Dedicated by Manfred and Rose-Ellen Leventhal in loving memory of:
Yechiel ben Rav Pinchas, Gittel Rus bas Rav Meyer,
Meira Leah bas Rav Michael,
Elya Moshe ben Rav Yonah, Avraham Hillel ben Rav Yeshaya - Z"L.
THE PARABLELS OF THE BEN ISH HAI
There was once two neighbors - one was rich, while the other was poor. The wealthy one owned vast flocks of cattle and sheep, as well as, numerous vineyards and fields. His dining table was like the table of kings and his spacious house was a literal palace. Despite his luxurious lifestyle he was very thin and frail.
His neighbor, on the other hand, was a simple craftsman. He did not have the means to provide feasts for his family every night for supper, except on Shabbos Kodesh. His small house was sparsely furnished and lacked everything but the bare essentials. However, notwithstanding his economic status he was robust and healthy; and his countenance always glowed with joy.
His wealthy neighbor asked him, "Why is it that I am so feeble, while you are so full of vitality and health?"
"Let me tell you the truth. You have an angry and irritable nature." he responded. "At least ten times a day you lose your temper with your servants and children. Anger weakens the body and takes a greet toll on one's health. Moreover, you have insatiable desires and you are consumed with jealousy. Hence, you are always in a state of anguish because you head is spinning with your obsession for money. You cannot possibly satisfy all of your passions. That is why you always feel miserable and this worry consumes you. With all of this negativity how could you possibly be healthy? Whereas I have an easy going nature. I see to it to never get angry. Moreover, I am happy with whatever portion that HaShem grants me. I look at what I have and feel that HaShem has truly blessed me. I do not have jealousy of others. Therefore, I have peace of mind which is the foundation of good health."
This parable teaches us that personal happiness is not dependent on one's economic status, but rather the purity of his character. The Torah warns us not to fall to the negative character traits such as jealousy, greed, and conceit. Not only are these traits improper, even more, they are destructive to our well being, in and of themselves.
Let us resolve to avoid these unfavorable traits. Then we will be healthy both in body and soul. Even more, we will be happy in this world, as well as, The World to Come!
TODAY: Stay even tempered under all circumstances.
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