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Mussar - A Healing Spirit for the Heart and Soul
RABBI YISRAEL SALANTER
Shalom Salant Center Friends!
Tomorrow is the 25th of Shevat the Yahrzeit of Rabbi Yisrael Salanter.
Customarily on his Yahrzeit, we ask our eMussar subscribers to send us new names to receive eMussar.
Rabbi Yisrael considered the spreading of Mussar study the greatest merit and blessing!
Please send us names of your family members and friends who would also benefit and enjoy our daily lessons -
salantorg@gmail.com May we continue to enjoy the teachings of Rav Yisrael and walk together in his light.
Warmest blessings,
Rabbi Zvi Miller
In honor of Rabbi Yisrael, we are presenting a selection from the book "Ohr Yisrael." (Published by Salant Foundation and Targum Press):
On one occasion, Rav Yisrael was carrying a gift. A colleague asked, "Where are you taking the gift?" Rav Yisrael responded, "I am delivering it to a certain individual." His friend asked, "Why don't you send the gift with a messenger?" Rav Yisrael responded, "The Torah obligates me to personally deliver the gift." His friend was puzzled, "I am not familiar with any such law?"
Rav Yisrael explained, "The Talmud (Yevamos 78b) tells us that when HaShem judges a person for a misdeed, at that very moment He recalls the good deeds of the person. We understand from here that if we feel someone has done something wrong, it is important to reflect on their good deeds. In this way, we will not lose our perspective. Instead of magnifying their improper conduct, we will see them as a good person who made a mistake.
This is the reason I am delivering the gift. A certain Rabbi acted improperly and it is my duty to speak to him about his behavior. It is a Mitzvah to emulate the attribute of HaShem. Since I must tell him that he acted improperly, I must remember and mention that he is a Torah scholar. Therefore, I am honoring him with a gift, even though at other times I would not necessarily do so. Yet under the circumstances I am obligated because 'at the time of judgment is the time to mention his good deeds."
How elevated were his paths! How deep were his thoughts - to inspire him to find this precious attribute of HaShem and conduct himself accordingly. Human nature is just the opposite. When someone harbors resentment against someone, he will forget all of the person's good points."
May we realize the vital importance of keeping our perspective in our relationships by always mentioning and remembering the good qualities of others.
TODAY: Consider the good points of a person who you feel has acted improperly.
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