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Re: Where I'm at 24 Nov 2009 14:57 #30318

  • habib613
i can't see it...
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Re: Where I'm at 24 Nov 2009 18:23 #30366

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Rage ATM wrote on 24 Nov 2009 14:18:

love the avatar...
habib613 wrote on 24 Nov 2009 14:57:

i can't see it...

Me neither...........
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Re: Where I'm at 24 Nov 2009 22:53 #30409

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Mazal Tov Uri on 100 pages of posts - the longest thread on GYE!!

And keep up the awesome work. Habib saw what I saw in your post.

That was your first REAL LIFE DOCUMENTED example of how your therapy is really really changing your attitude and actually helping you cut down on the acting out (not just getting you to act out more, like some people think Reb Shraga condones )

Keep inspiring us brother!
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Re: Where I'm at 25 Nov 2009 04:51 #30462

  • TrYiNg
Congrats on 100 bro   
Ad me'ah v'esrim... (& more.. ;D)
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Re: Where I'm at 25 Nov 2009 18:56 #30542

  • jerusalemsexaddict
im bored
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Re: Where I'm at 25 Nov 2009 18:59 #30543

  • TrYiNg
I posted bout a 100 things to do when you're bored, in the chill thread.
Also, check out mom an rage in her thread. Should give you a laugh
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Re: Where I'm at 25 Nov 2009 19:21 #30547

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Uri wrote on 25 Nov 2009 18:56:

im bored


Come wash some dishes
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: Where I'm at 25 Nov 2009 20:57 #30573

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...then come here and wash some dishes....
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."
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Re: Where I'm at 25 Nov 2009 23:59 #30596

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guardureyes wrote on 24 Nov 2009 22:53:

Mazal Tov Uri on 100 pages of posts - the longest thread on GYE!!

And keep up the awesome work. Habib saw what I saw in your post.

That was your first REAL LIFE DOCUMENTED example of how your therapy is really really changing your attitude and actually helping you cut down on the acting out (not just getting you to act out more, like some people think Reb Shraga condones )

Keep inspiring us brother!


I agree 100%.

As for Rav Shlachter, I'm reminded of the joke about a physician who puts his patient on a diet. 

Doctor: "The good news is that you can eat anything you want." 

Patient: "Sounds great." 

Doctor (handing the patient a piece of paper): "Here."

Patient: "What's this?"

Doctor: "It's a list of all the foods that you're allowed to want!"

Similarly, when Rav Shlachter seems to condone acting out whenever the patient wants, the goal is for the patient to realize that this is not what he really wants. 
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: Where I'm at 26 Nov 2009 08:40 #30626

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Great Moshol, Kedusha!

Uri, how are you doing? Did you survive the boredom? Sorry I couldn't chat, I only opened my chat for a few minutes for something very important and I was also in middle - and LATE - with the chizuk e-mails (as usual  )

You know it's funny. When I opened my chat for those few minutes for this really important thing, suddenly I got like 5 chat pop-ups, from you, Tomim, Yiddle, Bardichev & Loynata. It made me realize how desperately we need a good GYE chatroom. (Also for your boredom, Uri...) I will see if I can get something like that programmed one of these days for the chevra.

Hashem should send me the right programming shlichim, and a good price, and the money to cover it, and the head to deal with it - on top of everything else. AMEN.

Meanwhile, why don't you 5 chat with each other on gmail?

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Re: Where I'm at 26 Nov 2009 14:01 #30641

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i had this whole plan when i got home to start this cheshbon hanefesh but i forgot one thing
im home
just had a very intense fight with my mom in which she basically announced to our block that im seeing a psychologist and its not working.bit**.
now im depressed and pissed off and bored and pissed off.
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Re: Where I'm at 26 Nov 2009 14:05 #30642

  • habib613
:-[
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:-[
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Re: Where I'm at 26 Nov 2009 14:09 #30643

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Sorry about that man.
If you want to talk about it, just give me a call.
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Re: Where I'm at 26 Nov 2009 14:23 #30646

  • habib613
uri, only 3 people online right now. you, momo and me.
lets discuss something if you're that bored
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Re: Where I'm at 26 Nov 2009 14:27 #30647

  • jerusalemsexaddict
bored?
right now my parents are arguing (the only time they ever speak) as usual and my dads like why do u always yell?!and my mothers like "its uri.that kid is so dissapointing"
"i know.he's really disgusting."
"I dont know what he learns in yeshiva.how does he act like this?"

and all that happened was me coming home from work and getting yelled at my mom for being lazy and not helping in the house and not being home this shabbos and disgusting her.

at least theyre talking.usualy they just rip each other to peices (verbally)
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