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Need Help with a Vote 15 Jul 2009 15:06 #8844

  • YankelD
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Is this a fall or a slip?

Google image search for something inappropriate - yes I pursued.  Googled a few more words.  Then closed it before it got a hold of me.

Does this qualify as a "fall" or a "slip"?

Sorry if I gave ideas to anyone.

YankelD ???
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Re: Need Help with a Vote 15 Jul 2009 16:18 #8854

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bs"d

seems more like a victory to me... (but i don't know the GUE rules for that)
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Re: Need Help with a Vote 15 Jul 2009 16:51 #8858

  • bardichev
ok this is a tough question

the getting hold part is definately a victory

It is the search I have a problem with.

I would come to the maskana that it is a victry as said here but I am not the Posek you need to ask the HEILIGER GUARD

having said all that

all of my yeridos STARTED FROM GOOGLE IMAGE SEARCH!!!
I am not proud to say it but it is the truth

would you walk into barnes and noble
and take any random magazine off the rack??

Gehennom NO!!

Random searcheS Stumble upon(perfect name) are all gateways that almost AYWAYS lead to seol tachtiss

I am realyy a vey freindly person if you follow my posts

but.. but,, I am talking strict only from the deep pain of my personal experience

listen Tzaddik Ignore your YH  never test him to see if he still is in business.He is always in business.
just be cool and say Yh not now soory

wth all the love to a fellow jew
H&H
bardichev
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Re: Need Help with a Vote 15 Jul 2009 17:37 #8864

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shkoyach bardichev....

thanks for the chizuk

it's way too easy to turn off the strict search part!
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Re: Need Help with a Vote 15 Jul 2009 17:44 #8866

  • bardichev
yes it is

ain apitropus li-arayus
consider aflter
like k9
or covenant eyes
b
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Re: Need Help with a Vote 15 Jul 2009 17:48 #8867

  • battleworn
I agree that this shouldn't be considered a fall. I know that according to the rules it is, but I think this should should be an exception. But you most definitely should get it out of reach FAST!
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Re: Need Help with a Vote 15 Jul 2009 17:57 #8868

  • bardichev
HEILIGE YANKEL

SEE MY EXPLANATION FOR FALL SHMALL IN BREAK FREE

ALSO SEE TODAY EMAIL

Torah Thought of the Day
Posted by "Bardichev"
From HaGaon Reb Leizer Geltdzeler ZT"L:


In the Parsha of TZITZIS, the Torah Teaches us: "VE'LO SASURU ACHAREI LIVAVCHEM VIACHAREI EINICHEM - And you shall not stray after your heart and after your eyes".

Said Reb Lazer, VE'LO SASURU - you should not stray from the path of Hashem, ACHAREI LEVAVCHEM, V'ACHAREI AINEICHEM. The Torah is telling us, that even AFTER you already sinned, even AFTER you already started to go after your heart or eyes, DON'T CONTINUE the downward slide that the Yetzer Hara is trying to get you into even more than the sin itself!

So if you sinned, shake it off and continue on!!


FALL SHMALL SLIPPEDD SHMIPPED YANKEL SHMANKEL bARDICHEV SHMARDICHEV

YOU GET THE DRIFT

bardichev
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Re: Need Help with a Vote 15 Jul 2009 18:51 #8873

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Slipped Shmipped?!

Neh! Doesn't sound right!
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Re: Need Help with a Vote 15 Jul 2009 19:48 #8877

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That was very close, but we'll call it a slip not a fall!   But if it happens again, it may be a Shmall fall, but it's a fall shmall.
Webmaster of www.guardyoureyes.org - Maintaining Moral Purity in Today's World. We’re here on a quest ; it’s really all a test. Just do your best and G-d will do the rest.
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Re: Need Help with a Vote 15 Jul 2009 19:52 #8878

  • bardichev
THATS WHY WE CALL HIM THE HEILIGER GUARD!!!
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