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Re: The Never Believer Breaks Free 09 Dec 2010 15:23 #88529

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 383	Nu. At least capitalize the "dj".
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Re: The Never Believer Breaks Free 09 Dec 2010 15:52 #88531

d_teddybear Current streak: 94 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	dov wrote on 09 Dec 2010 15:23: Nu. At least capitalize the "dj". Sensei in the sky is upset by your lack of traditional bows and protocol. lol.
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Re: The Never Believer Breaks Free 09 Dec 2010 15:58 #88533

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	dov wrote on 09 Dec 2010 15:23: Nu. At least capitalize the "dj". i think he is an undercover Communist
	Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise ~Inna beshem ZS Give, Forgive ~Cordnoy The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting. ~TZ Last Edit: by .

Re: The Never Believer Breaks Free 09 Dec 2010 22:36 #88641

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David/Rage wrote on 09 Dec 2010 15:14:

theres something happening here (what it is, is not quite clear)....

Well, no matter what, you've gotta keep clear...uh, clean.

And you're missing my point - I agree that it's important. But i also think that we can live happily without it. Trust me, I have a strong drive. And yet, when i got clean, I discovered that I could be happy without indulging it (quite the epiphany for me), and I was able to be happy even with no end in sight - by sticking with it one day at a time.

And again - the only way for us to be happy, and indeed, the only way to enjoy a good sex life, is by reaching that point. That;s true for a few reasons - two off the top of my head are 1) our partners will feel that we're interested in them, not just ourselves, and 2) we're able to approach it as something we enjoy, not something we need, and so we don't feel resentment about the times we don't get, we feel enjoyment about the times we get. Which, in turn, makes it more likely for there to be more such opportunities in the future.

Mods - if I'm stepping over the line here, feel free to modify, or delete.

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Re: The Never Believer Breaks Free 09 Dec 2010 22:40 #88643

bardichev	rage i found u a pic http://www.edu.dudley.gov.uk/foundation/pbskids/images/kids_tele_po.jpg
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Re: The Never Believer Breaks Free 09 Dec 2010 23:22 #88657

ur-a-jew Current streak: 1087 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1717 Karma: 57	silentbattle wrote on 09 Dec 2010 22:36: Mods - if I'm stepping over the line here, feel free to modify, or delete. I can't for the life of me see what's objectionable. And that's assuming it was on a regular thread. On this thread you have to really use your imagination to get something stricken.
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Re: The Never Believer Breaks Free 09 Dec 2010 23:24 #88658

bardichev	Teletubbies are 4loko
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Re: The Never Believer Breaks Free 10 Dec 2010 06:28 #88683

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	Thanks for the reassurance. Glad I can give you some food for thought...
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Re: The Never Believer Breaks Free 10 Dec 2010 07:57 #88692

Eye.nonymous OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2696 Karma: 15	ZemirosShabbos wrote on 07 Dec 2010 19:10: i've heard of people dying from starvation but i never heard of a Pope dying because he was an 'older bachur' Well... Monestary on one hill... Convent on the other... And orphanage inbetween!
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Re: The Never Believer Breaks Free 10 Dec 2010 08:18 #88693

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	;D ;D ;D ;D
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Re: The Never Believer Breaks Free 10 Dec 2010 15:46 #88713

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	;D ;D good one
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Re: The Never Believer Breaks Free 10 Dec 2010 16:13 #88717

briut Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1425 Karma: 0	I'm chuckling now, but it's over several, several, several jokes about priests/nuns/etc and abstinence in the church. And it's all SO SO SO inappropriate. Might even trigger some (although not me). So can we please move off the subject before I share any of them with the oylam?? Good Shabbos.
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Re: The Never Believer Breaks Free 11 Dec 2010 19:23 #88744

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	SOunds like a plan, bro...the difficult part is doing it!
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Re: The Never Believer Breaks Free 12 Dec 2010 00:04 #88749

briut Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1425 Karma: 0	David/Rage wrote on 10 Dec 2010 16:21: with song to the warden up above Guess what, I just got the newspaper, and it turns out the Warden whose office you've been into on so many occasions to rob... actually wanted you in the office in the first place, to take whatever you needed. He's actually a pretty nice Guy. Go figure.
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Re: The Never Believer Breaks Free 12 Dec 2010 08:31 #88775

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Like any other drive- Sex can be positive (l'sheim shamayim) or negative
it all depends on where the person is at- so an integral part of dealing with
addiction is the "Big Picture" working on one's level of spirituality
whatever works for you- tefila-limud-chessed- together with working
on the addiction- we must go with the "DJ's" whole plan -all 9 yards
maybe we should start a new type of chassidus with a virtual rebbe
and weekly tish????

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