onetimetomany wrote on 23 Apr 2010 09:28:
But what amazes me is that 2 months of work can be destroyed in a couple of days. Its weird bc in yeshiva I don't usually have a problem (bc not my own comp...... Learning all day) but then when I go home suddenly its like the 2 months roll up into one day and always no matter how much I prepare I fall. What I need is like a preset list of conditions which I won't cross (like not bringing the compter alone to my room......) If anyone know any good ways then plzzzz help me. P.s what's the general opinions about tv shows and movies?
Preparation doesn't help. You need to do teshuva for lude thoughts. Try it. If you can't remember to do it each time, then consider making a neder, maybe for thirty days, to try it out. That stays with you wherever you go. But I think most people hope to get by without confessing under their breath a thousand times a day ..
