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accountability partner question 03 Mar 2010 20:21 #56163

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	hi i have a question about accountability partner software. does anyone have experience with having a partner from GYE, who they do not know in person, only through GYE? does that defeat the whole purpose of the accountability? i am referring to the software like WebChaver that you can install and it sends a history of sites visited to a designated person. thanks
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Re: accountability partner question 03 Mar 2010 20:32 #56166

the.guard Current streak: 763 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	You can use our filter Gabai for that, at filter.gye@gmail.com
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Re: accountability partner question 03 Mar 2010 20:37 #56170

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	thanks for replying. what does he do if he sees that a site visited was bad? he cannot call me into his office and put the fear of the l-rd into me basically my question is what is the deterrent of such a setup? just the knowledge that someone else is "watching" even though that person is a nameless, faceless entity you will not meet?
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Re: accountability partner question 04 Mar 2010 18:11 #56352

Ineedhelp!! OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1058 Karma: 2	Thats why this kind of accountability partner is only usefull if you use someone you know in person.
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Re: accountability partner question 04 Mar 2010 19:03 #56361

ark321 Current streak: 141 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	I had a similar issue to you. Webchaver suggested to me that my wife be my chaver.
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Re: accountability partner question 04 Mar 2010 19:11 #56366

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	thanks for all the responses. seems that the consensus is that anonymous partner are not the recommended way, which is what i surmised. it would take some explaining to the wife why all of a sudden i need her to be my "monitor". b"h i have filters on my computers for a couple years but the filters do not filter everything.
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Re: accountability partner question 04 Mar 2010 19:41 #56375

ark321 Current streak: 141 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	no need to do it all of a sudden. just casually mention about webchaver one day. a couple of weeks later you can bring it up again - say a friend of yours asked you to be their chaver etc. etc.
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Re: accountability partner question 04 Mar 2010 20:06 #56383

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	good idea, thanks
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