This single vs married thing is going on for honestly no reason.  We all here are forgetting the reason we are here.  WERE ADDICTS!!!  Spliting up addicts, is this a good idea or bad idea, I am not an expert so, not really sure.  But guys, as this is now the guys forum, we are all addicts.  We need to be there for each other forgetting married or not.  We are brothers in a fight for mental and emotional sanity.  I joke on my thread sometimes we are all nuts.  Yes, we are and we all need as many nuts to help us on our journeys.  Let smarter people then I decide if seperating singles from married men is right.  Everyone has an opionion on the matter but lets please all remember we are all here for one main reason, we are addicts.  If we fight or feel left out or think we have won something, that reminds me to much of how people describe preschool children.  The core of this website is being forgotten about. Is this worth it?  Is it worth arguing?  Guard should we keep it up per experts?  The last thing I am going to say is, this website has helped save me, G-d only knows how many of you it has done the same thing for. 

Hey, Hey. No one is splitting up the forum into two groups; single and married. The new married board is only for specific discussions that don't belong in full view (like nidda cycles and when the wife says "no" and the guy wants it, etc...)... It s not for ANYTHING else. We are still all together here.

Thank you  :D

Thanks guard for that explaination.  I think everyone needs to see that.

guardureyes wrote on 14 Jan 2010 13:44:


And why is this something that should onyl be confined to marrid men of the forum? Why not restrict it to all members of the forum? Their original reasoning was because it might trigger us single people. Knowing what they are talking about, it doesnt trigger me especially because stuff likr that has BEEN on the forum in the past! What people are writing hasnt changed; what has changed is this "new" idea that we should restrict other people that SHOULD not participate in this discussion. In reality, there is no reaosn why a single person cant read or even be involved in these discussions. If he feels its a trigger then he should lay off the thread. Much like Bruce's thread about people in the adult entertainment industry. I voted that if it gets more grpahic it would be a trigger. Does that mean that we should make that thread restricted to those that aren't triggered by it? No. I am just going to avoid that thread if it gets more graphic.

All the best!

-Yiddle

I dont want to post my reply here, please read it  on the new exclusive private only married forum.

Me3, were talking to me?? cause I didnt see any response to my post...

-Yiddle

Oh Dear, no I wasn't being serious, I haven't even signed up for the married only forum, I don't like exclusive clubs, that's why I also didn't join the women's forum either.

(Forget it, no one should be reading my posts today I get like this when I'm tired. Plus I like making sure the moderators are on their toes).

Me3 wrote on 14 Jan 2010 16:16:


To bad, Me3. I added you now  :D