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Does your wife know about your addiction? 14 Jan 2010 08:09 #45595

kollel guy Current streak: 15 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 478 Karma: 1	This is in response to the discussion on this thread rehab-my-site.com/guardureyes/forum/index.php?topic=1482.30;topicseen Besides, I'm very curious.
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Re: Does your wife know about your addiction? 14 Jan 2010 11:12 #45610

sci1977 Current streak: 438 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 895 Karma: 0	I'm a pretty obvious yes and voted that way.
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Re: Does your wife know about your addiction? 14 Jan 2010 11:53 #45615

G38 OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 233 Karma: 1	I tried to explain to her the difficulties men face, which she should know anyway as she may be an object, but she didn't grasp it so I am not going to explain it anymore bl"n.
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Re: Does your wife know about your addiction? 14 Jan 2010 13:42 #45630

the.guard Current streak: 805 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	If your wife *does* know, get her to sign up to the forum and we'll put her on the "Spouses of Addicts" board where she can post - and vent
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Re: Does your wife know about your addiction? 14 Jan 2010 14:26 #45651

Ineedhelp!! OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1058 Karma: 2	KG: can we make a choice in the vote that we are single? I would like to see the results and the only way to do that is to actually vote which I cant with these choices. Thanks! -Yiddle
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Re: Does your wife know about your addiction? 14 Jan 2010 14:44 #45660

kollel guy Current streak: 15 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 478 Karma: 1	Done, shkoych for reminding me.... I was so caught up in the "make the married ONLY forum" - mode, I forgot to consider the singles here. :D ;D
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Re: Does your wife know about your addiction? 14 Jan 2010 14:46 #45661

Ineedhelp!! OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1058 Karma: 2	Kollel Guy wrote on 14 Jan 2010 14:44: Done, shkoych for reminding me.... I was so caught up in the "make the married ONLY forum" - mode, I forgot to consider the singles here. :D ;D Haha that was a very aperpoe (dont know how to spell that) comment! But seriously it probably has something to do with that maybe subconsciencly Thanks KG! -Yiddle
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Re: Does your wife know about your addiction? 14 Jan 2010 15:32 #45689

kollel guy Current streak: 15 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 478 Karma: 1	This whole editing the vote options is really cool. You can totally change around which votes are winning if you don't like the way the results are going. Bush would've had a field day on this site.
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Re: Does your wife know about your addiction? 14 Jan 2010 22:21 #45831

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G38 wrote on 14 Jan 2010 11:53:

I tried to explain to her the difficulties men face, which she should know anyway as she may be an object, but she didn't grasp it so I am not going to explain it anymore bl"n.

I got the same issue.

I finding out little by little just how LITTLE women know about what goes on in a mans head, and it is scary!!!

my wife in her ignorance thought it wouldnt be so bad if we went to a mixed beach and i "just wont look at the women"
you hear this? she was totally serious!

alot of B.Y. girls DONT HAVE A CLUE!!!

maybe ill make a poll of that,
"Does your wife think she knows what a man goes thourgh?

"The passion and the flame is ignited,
you cant put it out once we light it"

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Re: Does your wife know about your addiction? 14 Jan 2010 22:26 #45832

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fightingyid wrote on 14 Jan 2010 22:21:

G38 wrote on 14 Jan 2010 11:53:

I tried to explain to her the difficulties men face, which she should know anyway as she may be an object, but she didn't grasp it so I am not going to explain it anymore bl"n.

I was able to do this the other day so it CAN be done.

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Re: Does your wife know about your addiction? 14 Jan 2010 22:28 #45833

fightingyyid Current streak: 71 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 83 Karma: 0	gd bless you man, but i tried once or twice and it didnt go. but in the end it really doesnt make a difference to me if she understands or not.
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Re: Does your wife know about your addiction? 14 Jan 2010 22:29 #45834

me3 Current streak: 97 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1229 Karma: 9	Man, I thought he was talking about going to a mixed beach and not looking.
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Re: Does your wife know about your addiction? 14 Jan 2010 23:05 #45847

Cleareyes613 Current streak: 272 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 399 Karma: 1	Yes, my wife knows about my addiction towards porn and masterbation. I came clean to improve our relationship and learn to be more open. I had enough of lying my whole life, and deleteing GYE history just felt so wrong. I am who I am. One day at a time.
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Re: Does your wife know about your addiction? 15 Jan 2010 00:27 #45867

fightingyyid Current streak: 71 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 83 Karma: 0	Me3 wrote on 14 Jan 2010 22:29: Man, I thought he was talking about going to a mixed beach and not looking. lol. me too for a sec.
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