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The "accountability groups" seems to have died down 12 Jan 2010 22:41 #45035

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I think the system of accountability groups needs a restructure. My group for sure doesn't seem to be working well, there is rare communication amoung the members. Is there any solution as in theory it is a good idea..? Does anyone feel the same?
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Re: The "accountability groups" seems to have died down 12 Jan 2010 22:45 #45043

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If i write this then my post will go to the top and i may get at least one response before its completly lost, as in general i dislike talking to myself
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Re: The "accountability groups" seems to have died down 12 Jan 2010 22:49 #45052

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Dont dislike talking to yourself so much. Hes a real  nice guy. hes always there for you. He always hears you. And hes always on your side. Just a few of the many reasons we should enjoy talking to ourselves.
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Re: The "accountability groups" seems to have died down 12 Jan 2010 22:52 #45057

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thank you for taking the time to actually read my post...im sorry i cant say the same about replying to it though...
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Re: The "accountability groups" seems to have died down 12 Jan 2010 22:54 #45061

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I actually used to be in the group , but for reasons im not gonna discuss here i dropped out!
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Re: The "accountability groups" seems to have died down 12 Jan 2010 22:55 #45062

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oooh cant say im not curious...
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Re: The "accountability groups" seems to have died down 12 Jan 2010 23:02 #45068

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I think it should be quite simple - if you're in the group YOU'RE IN THE GROUP which means you check in. Every day. Checking in is as simple as "Hi everyone, I didn't fall today." But don't limit yourself on what to post. You miss a day, then you better have a good excuse. Anyone who isn't checking in, is not really in the group. Maybe instead of having guard assigning groups we will do the following: We start with one group. At the end of the week, those who checkin every day, will become part of the group. A group that reaches ten will split into two of 5. Who goes where will be decided by the group - because at this point they are all active participants. From that point forward, anyone who wants to join a group will have to show their seriousness. They post in that group saying they are "applying for group joining." They will become active in the group, and participate over the next 3 - 7 days. If they "pass" by being dedicated to active participation, then they're in.

A better idea for checking in is to post on one's log, and then posting a link to your new log post in the group.

What do you guys think?
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Re: The "accountability groups" seems to have died down 12 Jan 2010 23:04 #45071

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GI...........joe
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Re: The "accountability groups" seems to have died down 12 Jan 2010 23:52 #45094

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Yeah, my group (number 7) hasn't really gotten off the ground.
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Re: The "accountability groups" seems to have died down 14 Jan 2010 19:46 #45779

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The accountability groups have definitely died down. Its a great idea but it probably needs some tweeking in terms of the rules. NOBODY HAS POSTED ON IT TODAY!!

-Yiddle
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