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Re: New post, old topic..... ideas any one? 13 Jan 2010 14:14 #45257

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All this chat rooms, etc.

Remember, these tools are ESSENTIALLY EVIL.

I think the goal isn't to get MORE involved in the internet.  All gung-ho about it just because we're lust addicts.

Even with a forum without chat rooms, this COMPUTER ADDICTION, regardless of the lust aspect, has popped up as a big issue for quite a few members of the forum (myself included).

It is ironic, not ideal, that we have found recovery through the internet.

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Re: New post, old topic..... ideas any one? 13 Jan 2010 15:08 #45282

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I personally think Guard should work on the most selfless thing for this website first and that would be for the spouses of addicts to have a place.  We all need to be more selfless and married or not the spouses are hurting and probably need the most help.  We are at least here to help each other.  My two cents.
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Re: New post, old topic..... ideas any one? 13 Jan 2010 15:13 #45285

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Being that I am not married I wonder... How many spouses actually know of their husband's addiction??? I dont want to start a poll because I think its EXTREMELY personal.

-Yiddle
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Re: New post, old topic..... ideas any one? 13 Jan 2010 15:48 #45297

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It might even be for a member who is already here.  We really don't know how many spouses need help, but they need an option I think.  Married forum, chat meetings ect, are all ideas that give us more tools.  Spouses of members or non members have not many outlets that I or my wife can find and like.  Also, I beleive if we as members said, OK its better for someone else to get help in general we are acting selfless in our own battle.  I know guard will do the right thing for this website and what he chooses to do or not do is probably in the best intrest of everyone.
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Re: New post, old topic..... ideas any one? 14 Jan 2010 08:04 #45592

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Yiddle2 wrote on 13 Jan 2010 15:13:

Being that I am not married I wonder... How many spouses actually know of their husband's addiction??? I dont want to start a poll because I think its EXTREMELY personal.

-Yiddle
This whole website is extremely personal.
I'm gonna make the poll right now.
rehab-my-site.com/guardureyes/forum/index.php?topic=1543.0
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Re: New post, old topic..... ideas any one? 14 Jan 2010 13:55 #45635

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sci1977 wrote on 13 Jan 2010 15:08:

I personally think Guard should work on the most selfless thing for this website first and that would be for the spouses of addicts to have a place.  We all need to be more selfless and married or not the spouses are hurting and probably need the most help.  We are at least here to help each other.  My two cents.


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Re: New post, old topic..... ideas any one? 17 Jan 2010 00:00 #46113

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Thanks Guard. 
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