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fightingyid wrote on 12 Jan 2010 03:33:

Affirmative lishneihem.

Guard has not responding to much of this.  Maybe he is working hard on some of it???  I guess we all have to wait and see, any other ideas we should put on his plate?

Maybe like a weekly or daily online meetings like aaonline.com has.  I guess thats way ahead of us, but one can dream, right guard?

I am very much for a normal Chat section here . Would be the best thing for us at least for me! There was one here before but that had links to bad places. What we need here is an independent chat for the GUE group. Rabbinu Guard said for $800.00 he can put one up. Is anyone willing to pay part of the expenses? I would give the first $100.00 if we can put this together soon. Does anybody want to chip into the heilger Mitzvah. Everytime some one gets saved by chatting there you will have schar. C"mon lets see if we can do a nachas ruach for Hashem.

I am continuing this post on a new Topic called GUE Chat.

hey married guys, there aren't enough bachurim too keep the site alive without you, and if you get too carried-away with your own topics... we will be deprived of your wisdom guidance... oh and maturity. You don't want to leave this site for a handfull of bachurim to theorize about addiction, in the few moments they have in the dorm bathroom (with their phone), not a good idea.

If you need 2 or 3 specialized threads, the complexities of keeping the content worded in a lashon naki, in addition to zehirus everyone must approach the thread with, make it somewhat risky. Try making an off-line email/chat network to deal with it.

no one i suggesting that the married guys LEAVE per si, just they should have a separate room to be able to be more graphic in thats all.

relax boy, no ones leaving you

I'm married and not going anywhere.  It would be nice if we could have an area that the married guys can discuss certain issues that would not trigger a single person.

If its going to trigger a single person theres a good chance that something like that would trigger ATLEAST one married person and that in itself is not worth having a seperate place for it. And besides that, we just seperated men and woman, now you want to seperate married and single! I dont like where this forum is headed. I thiught this is a place where we could escape the reality of our religious differences and be just Jews. Soon we will end up having sperate Chassidish and Litvish forums! This idea of seperation must end at mens and womans.

-Yiddle

You should see the amount of sections they have on ImaMother...
Literally like 50.

Yiddle2 wrote on 12 Jan 2010 21:04:


your clearly not married yiddle. it is possible for married men to have graphic mature conversations without it being a trigger.

I would say that also for a single person... WHOS NOT A LUST ADDICT. We have the same triggers. Maybe you can give me an example privately and then I can decide to agree with you, but until I hear something that would trigger me an unstable state of mind and NOT a married person in unstable state of mind then I would have to respectfully disagree.

-Yiddle

PS you are correct that I am not married however incorrect that I cannot have "graphic mature conversations without it being a trigger". Shoot me a PM with an example.

Im all for having a separate THREAD not forum ( yeedle ). ut i have to say that yeedle does have a point. I think that sometimes maybe could be something there can be a trigger to even a married man and for that ts not worth it. :-\

Its very fair to have a thread for married yidden. However, sci1977 wants to be able to talk without triggering single people. A new thread wont help that issue one bit. I do agree however that if married people want to talk about married stuff they should have it. I still stand by my claim that whatever triggers a single person will trigger a married person as well. Remember we ALL have different triggers.

-Yiddle