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Re: How can we spread the knowledge of GYE's power 03 Jul 2024 01:57 #416283

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Thanks, Eerie for leading this. There are two Rabbanim that I'm thinking I can approach. They both know me and my family but that's not holding me back. The only issue right now is that I would have to ask my father for their cell phone numbers and I don't think I want to do that...

They both have a big following by the young oilem in the City I grew up in.
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Re: How can we spread the knowledge of GYE's power 03 Jul 2024 02:25 #416284

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There are always other ways to get their number. A lot of times asking around can get it
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Re: How can we spread the knowledge of GYE's power 03 Jul 2024 03:00 #416285

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i would think most people suffering from internet abuse, are not disclosing it to their rabbi/rav,
probably not the best way to get it out to the silent sufferers.

But anyone that is suffering that sees a advertisement for GYE it will hit him hard, he might need to see it a bunch of times and in different places, but hopefully it will get to him one day or another.
GYE does not do enough marketing, they need to shower themselves all over every jewish news paper, and platform and explain clearer exactly whats it all about, and what they offer.
every time they put out a new advertisement next day theres bunch of new members.
this is how 16,000 people joined, lets just take it to next level.

Another point,
best way to get it out there is through חברא חברא אית ליה just peddle it around............it will eventually get to to the rabbis too.

i personally have told many people to check it out this powerful place its so cool..................(just said i happened to come across it, and looks like an amazing place for people that need it) and they did.

what we can do is, give money to GYE, so they can advertise &market properly.
Last Edit: 03 Jul 2024 14:35 by cande.

Re: How can we spread the knowledge of GYE's power 03 Jul 2024 19:54 #416341

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cande wrote on 03 Jul 2024 03:00:
i would think most people suffering from internet abuse, are not disclosing it to their rabbi/rav,
probably not the best way to get it out to the silent sufferers.


I hear what you're saying but I think, #1 some Rabbaim can sense when people are going through certain challenges but if they don’t know of a solution, they’d rather not say anything. On the other hand, if they do of a solution, they can try to fish out more information from the person and propose that they visit GYE. #2 If a parent approaches their Rav that they caught their child engaging in inappropriate things on the internet, he can tell them about GYE and that there’s help.

You can win the fight, but I'll have to live with the loser.

Any excuse you use for yourself, you must be willing to use for your wife.

Not Always can I understand others, but I can always respect their wishes.

You're human, it's okay.

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Re: How can we spread the knowledge of GYE's power 04 Jul 2024 00:13 #416371

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Heeling wrote on 03 Jul 2024 19:54:

cande wrote on 03 Jul 2024 03:00:
i would think most people suffering from internet abuse, are not disclosing it to their rabbi/rav,
probably not the best way to get it out to the silent sufferers.




I hear what you're saying but I think, #1 some Rabbaim can sense when people are going through certain challenges but if they don’t know of a solution, they’d rather not say anything. On the other hand, if they do of a solution, they can try to fish out more information from the person and propose that they visit GYE. #2 If a parent approaches their Rav that they caught their child engaging in inappropriate things on the internet, he can tell them about GYE and that there’s help.


i would not recommend GYE for children or bouchrim, (they dont need this exposure, they need 1 on 1 private guidance from a rebbi/mentor tailor made for there exact situation/struggle)
unless they've already crossed many red lines.
Last Edit: 04 Jul 2024 00:14 by cande.

Re: How can we spread the knowledge of GYE's power 04 Jul 2024 03:09 #416376

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cande wrote on 04 Jul 2024 00:13:
i would not recommend GYE for children or bouchrim, (they dont need this exposure, they need 1 on 1 private guidance from a rebbi/mentor tailor made for there exact situation/struggle)
unless they've already crossed many red lines.

ouch. are you attempting to expel the bochurim? mwahaha, not sure you know who you're starting with:devil:

p.s. i'd love 1 on 1 private guidance from a rebbi, not everyone is zoche.

@eerie i'm gonna write to meaningful people that they should read your email and get you on the show (for all you know, the person reading their emails is a regular around here)

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Re: How can we spread the knowledge of GYE's power 04 Jul 2024 03:33 #416377

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i sent this message to meaningful people. let's hope this happens!

hi! first of all, thanks a bunch for the great shows you produce. you bring so many amazing guests from the wide spectrum of our community, and there's always something interesting and new to hear.

i'm writung today b'shlichus of my community, and l'tzoirech many yiddin. i come from a wonderful community called GYE. a place w amazing (and meaningful:)) people, who do great work. we've been thinking recently that it would be great if there'd be more awareness for this community, as so many yiddin today are unfortunately going through this struggle, and it's all so much harder in isolation. (i'ts erroneous!!) it would be tremendous to get the word out for more of our dear brothers to benefit from this resource. (i welcome you to check out the website for more info, or to give a listen to the headlines show on the topic. also, dr. shloime zimerman may or may not have mentioned it when he was on your show.)

it has come to my attention that one of the true tzadikim of gye, who's helped counless individuals in their struggle, has reached out to your team to suggest that you bring him on the show in order to accomplish the aforementioned. w my message here, i want to add just a bit of pressure and see if such a thing can ultimately be pulled off. gevald!

thanks again for your wonderful content, and please continue doing what you do so well.

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Re: How can we spread the knowledge of GYE's power 04 Jul 2024 16:29 #416406

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Hey, Horizon, that's an amazing idea, that a few others should reach out and encourage them!

I guess we should reach out to others as well. Here's the link for the "inspiration for the nation" podcast (BennyH-this may be the watching that your looking for...)
I reached out to them already

www.livinglchaim.com/suggest

Are there others?
Feel free to say hi. My email is 1gimpelovitz@gmail.com
Last Edit: 04 Jul 2024 16:30 by eerie.

Re: How can we spread the knowledge of GYE's power 04 Jul 2024 16:44 #416409

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horizon wrote on 04 Jul 2024 03:33:
i sent this message to meaningful people. let's hope this happens!

hi! first of all, thanks a bunch for the great shows you produce. you bring so many amazing guests from the wide spectrum of our community, and there's always something interesting and new to hear.

i'm writung today b'shlichus of my community, and l'tzoirech many yiddin. i come from a wonderful community called GYE. a place w amazing (and meaningful:)) people, who do great work. we've been thinking recently that it would be great if there'd be more awareness for this community, as so many yiddin today are unfortunately going through this struggle, and it's all so much harder in isolation. (i'ts erroneous!!) it would be tremendous to get the word out for more of our dear brothers to benefit from this resource. (i welcome you to check out the website for more info, or to give a listen to the headlines show on the topic. also, dr. shloime zimerman may or may not have mentioned it when he was on your show.)

it has come to my attention that one of the true tzadikim of gye, who's helped counless individuals in their struggle, has reached out to your team to suggest that you bring him on the show in order to accomplish the aforementioned. w my message here, i want to add just a bit of pressure and see if such a thing can ultimately be pulled off. gevald!

thanks again for your wonderful content, and please continue doing what you do so well.

Wow wow wow, this thread brings out a truly amazing aspect of GYE and the chevra here, you see, we are all run of the mill people, with our own busy lives, work, kids, seder and whatever else it my be for you, but the people here find the brain space to help others for sake of helping another Yid. What more needs to be said, it is moving to see the genuine drive of the chevra, to help a fellow struggler. There is no way this isn't making a storm up there.   
Last Edit: 04 Jul 2024 16:47 by iyh2023.

Re: How can we spread the knowledge of GYE's power 04 Jul 2024 17:47 #416415

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I messaged Meaningful People and Living L'chaim
You can win the fight, but I'll have to live with the loser.

Any excuse you use for yourself, you must be willing to use for your wife.

Not Always can I understand others, but I can always respect their wishes.

You're human, it's okay.

One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other.

Re: How can we spread the knowledge of GYE's power 05 Jul 2024 15:39 #416509

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eerie wrote on 02 Jul 2024 20:17:
I just sent meaningful people a message, let's see where this goes

Any updates on this?

Re: How can we spread the knowledge of GYE's power 05 Jul 2024 17:59 #416529

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I have not heard from them. 
Feel free to say hi. My email is 1gimpelovitz@gmail.com

Re: How can we spread the knowledge of GYE's power 23 Jul 2024 22:55 #417622

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maybe, get וימאן to send out a video to 60,000+ followers about GYE - probably many there could use the help from GYE

Re: How can we spread the knowledge of GYE's power 23 Jul 2024 23:18 #417632

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קריינא דאיגרתא...

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Re: How can we spread the knowledge of GYE's power 24 Jul 2024 01:30 #417637

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aaabbb wrote on 23 Jul 2024 22:55:
maybe, get וימאן to send out a video to 60,000+ followers about GYE - probably many there could use the help from GYE

Maybe Eerie can talk to them
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