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Help 22 Aug 2023 23:49 #400258

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I went for 126 days straight. Got too confident, and I fell last week. I can't seem to break free and get back up. I can't believe I am falling in Elul. It seems hopeless. I can't believe I won't be coming into rosh hashana with a solid record. I need some help getting up this time. I'm looking for any suggestions.

Re: Help 23 Aug 2023 01:10 #400259

Wow congrats on that streak!! I’m currently at 32 days so many of us are struggling to hit the 90 day mark we look up to you & wish we can be like you! Obviously never falling again is the goal for all of us however assuming you’ve been struggling with this for a few years how would comparing the amount of times you fell the last few years to this years? Looking at yourself now are you closer to considering yourself free from p&m than a year ago or further? You are coming into Rosh Hashana with a 126 day streak! When was the last Rosh Hashana you were able to say that?

keep it up you did great brother & now with your refined plan & being smarter as to what may have caused your fall your even stronger & better prepared for your new streak which I wish you should last a lifetime!




rooting for you!
Last Edit: 23 Aug 2023 01:11 by themakabi5783.

Re: Help 23 Aug 2023 01:51 #400266

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iamvayimaen wrote on 22 Aug 2023 23:49:
I went for 126 days straight. Got too confident, and I fell last week. I can't seem to break free and get back up. I can't believe I am falling in Elul. It seems hopeless. I can't believe I won't be coming into rosh hashana with a solid record. I need some help getting up this time. I'm looking for any suggestions.

Congratulations on your streak! You wil be coming to Rosh Hashana with a major accomplishment! You are a different person having lasted that long. Dont obsess about the streak its not baseball. If at the begining someoe would have told you i can help you limit doing this behavior to 3 times a year you would have paid a million dollars! Of course we have to learn from our mistakes but make sure to also revel in our accomplishments. Hashem is proud of you!
Nothing good grows in the dark. 
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