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Is it time for a change of perspective? 26 Mar 2023 04:27 #393885

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Dr Gabor mate. -"The first question is not 'why the addiction' but rather - 'why the pain' ".
I'm sick of the Un-scientific approach of today's medical and social environment. 
we will never heal and become a better society unless we realize that all people are addicts. Any thing we do that we aren't interested in is "addiction" and medicine doesn't fix addictions. 

Pain causes addiction and medicine cant fix pain. 

Unless we heal our pain, and become truama conscious so as not to cause others pain, we will never be living in a functioning human society.
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Re: Is it time for a change of perspective? 26 Mar 2023 04:35 #393886

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Re: Is it time for a change of perspective? 27 Mar 2023 02:37 #393937

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It's the myth of "normal" that keeps everything in a warped perspective. 

Its not like thier are those that are 'addicts'/'have mental illness' on one side, and then those "normal" people on the other side.   We are all part of one group that needs connection safety and interconnected living..

When we act out because of pain, we are normal. We must stop looking at "why the addiction" but rather, why the pain?"

We are all beings who need connection and safety. Those who don't have this are people in pain. Who are normal people. Not addicts.
I'm sick of the Un-scientific approach of today's medical and social environment. 
we will never heal and become a better society unless we realize that all people are addicts. Any thing we do that we aren't interested in is "addiction" and medicine doesn't fix addictions. 

Pain causes addiction and medicine cant fix pain. 

Unless we heal our pain, and become truama conscious so as not to cause others pain, we will never be living in a functioning human society.
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