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Re: YouTube leading to Fails... Any ideas? 27 Mar 2023 05:54 #393947

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BH week one completed as said in an earlier post, recieved many may'los. Now on to week 2 of no yt, started sunday 3.27 till 1 week sunday inclusive BzH! Hatzlacha me =)
To my dear friend reading this:
You are an incredible yid for just being on this site, I am breath taken after each post or new person that comes on and shares a bit about himself, keep it up. You guys are mamash matzlichim in your own ways of growth and Hashem is proud of each one of you! (that includes me too) lol.

KEEP UP YOUR TREMENDOUS UPLIFTING IN THE AVODAH OF EMES!!

Thanks for reading! Stay shtark, I am also being challenged, just build your confidence, never quit no matter what, you are your strongest enemy and yet you are your strongest savior so you choose, I am not saying it's easy but am saying it's possible just takes effort and work!!
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Re: YouTube leading to Fails... Any ideas? 27 Mar 2023 15:45 #393973

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Yes, neuroplasticity is the name of the game here....
I think webcahver is always important, as ive learned. 
What happens when you dont have it is you look for holes on the filter or sites that will not catch etc.... onc you have webchaver, thats over, you will stop searching for anything bad because you partner will see right away that you are up to no good. 
And yes, please check out the f2f again. 

Re: YouTube leading to Fails... Any ideas? 27 Mar 2023 16:26 #393979

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you make a good point

טאטע טאטע טאטע איך וויל זיין, יא איך וויל זיין, א ירא שמים

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Re: YouTube leading to Fails... Any ideas? 28 Mar 2023 05:05 #394038

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Slowly trying to shift away from yt, Did a week straight then break for a day or so, then another week right now about to be done, 2days down 5to go!
To my dear friend reading this:
You are an incredible yid for just being on this site, I am breath taken after each post or new person that comes on and shares a bit about himself, keep it up. You guys are mamash matzlichim in your own ways of growth and Hashem is proud of each one of you! (that includes me too) lol.

KEEP UP YOUR TREMENDOUS UPLIFTING IN THE AVODAH OF EMES!!

Thanks for reading! Stay shtark, I am also being challenged, just build your confidence, never quit no matter what, you are your strongest enemy and yet you are your strongest savior so you choose, I am not saying it's easy but am saying it's possible just takes effort and work!!
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Re: YouTube leading to Fails... Any ideas? 30 Mar 2023 05:40 #394130

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A week and 4 days down without any YouTube, which lead to most of my problems, BH, let’s keep strong!!
To my dear friend reading this:
You are an incredible yid for just being on this site, I am breath taken after each post or new person that comes on and shares a bit about himself, keep it up. You guys are mamash matzlichim in your own ways of growth and Hashem is proud of each one of you! (that includes me too) lol.

KEEP UP YOUR TREMENDOUS UPLIFTING IN THE AVODAH OF EMES!!

Thanks for reading! Stay shtark, I am also being challenged, just build your confidence, never quit no matter what, you are your strongest enemy and yet you are your strongest savior so you choose, I am not saying it's easy but am saying it's possible just takes effort and work!!
-from Emes-A-Yid

Re: YouTube leading to Fails... Any ideas? 30 Mar 2023 16:22 #394142

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Amazing! 
Its unreal what we can get done when we want! 
Hatzlacha!

Re: YouTube leading to Fails... Any ideas? 02 Apr 2023 07:22 #394222

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2 weeks done!
To my dear friend reading this:
You are an incredible yid for just being on this site, I am breath taken after each post or new person that comes on and shares a bit about himself, keep it up. You guys are mamash matzlichim in your own ways of growth and Hashem is proud of each one of you! (that includes me too) lol.

KEEP UP YOUR TREMENDOUS UPLIFTING IN THE AVODAH OF EMES!!

Thanks for reading! Stay shtark, I am also being challenged, just build your confidence, never quit no matter what, you are your strongest enemy and yet you are your strongest savior so you choose, I am not saying it's easy but am saying it's possible just takes effort and work!!
-from Emes-A-Yid

Re: YouTube leading to Fails... Any ideas? 02 Apr 2023 13:35 #394229

Late commenter on the topic but what works for me is to have a strong filter and block Yoututbe, then if I need something for work or education etc I request that page. Take a few minutes to get approved and by that time I sometimes figured it out already and don’t watch anyway. The time delay is a big help 
Hi, my name is ILH and I’m grateful for having to focus just on today. 
Easy does it... I don't need to be perfect. 
If you figured out my identity, don't be shy, come say hi! 
It takes tons of courage to fight the good fight, but we don't have to do it all alone. 
My Story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/385922-My-Story-Being-Honest-For-Once

Re: YouTube leading to Fails... Any ideas? 09 Apr 2023 04:45 #394384

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3 weeks no youtube..
Incredible of how much of a difference it has been without it, thanks for the challenge. I will bh do another week starting tom. Hatzlacha all!!
To my dear friend reading this:
You are an incredible yid for just being on this site, I am breath taken after each post or new person that comes on and shares a bit about himself, keep it up. You guys are mamash matzlichim in your own ways of growth and Hashem is proud of each one of you! (that includes me too) lol.

KEEP UP YOUR TREMENDOUS UPLIFTING IN THE AVODAH OF EMES!!

Thanks for reading! Stay shtark, I am also being challenged, just build your confidence, never quit no matter what, you are your strongest enemy and yet you are your strongest savior so you choose, I am not saying it's easy but am saying it's possible just takes effort and work!!
-from Emes-A-Yid

Re: YouTube leading to Fails... Any ideas? 10 Apr 2023 22:32 #394424

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I hope that you can see that my harsh words in the beginning were meant to help you…. 
im happy that you took this step, I always tell people that dealing with things outside of our brains and bodies are so much easier to deal with, you just walk away and turn it off or throw it out, of course it’s hard but usually only until you make the decision, once it’s over, you forget very fast why you needed it.
the real struggle is to deal with urges that come from without where you can’t just shut it off……. Hopefully you won’t have a hard time with that…
Good Luck and keep growing 

Re: YouTube leading to Fails... Any ideas? 11 Apr 2023 05:04 #394434

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chancy wrote on 10 Apr 2023 22:32:
I hope that you can see that my harsh words in the beginning were meant to help you…. 
im happy that you took this step, I always tell people that dealing with things outside of our brains and bodies are so much easier to deal with, you just walk away and turn it off or throw it out, of course it’s hard but usually only until you make the decision, once it’s over, you forget very fast why you needed it.
the real struggle is to deal with urges that come from without where you can’t just shut it off……. Hopefully you won’t have a hard time with that…
Good Luck and keep growing 

Chancy, you come to haunt me good for you!
the words with the mashal- smooth as butter, it takes time until you are somewhat out to realize 
To my dear friend reading this:
You are an incredible yid for just being on this site, I am breath taken after each post or new person that comes on and shares a bit about himself, keep it up. You guys are mamash matzlichim in your own ways of growth and Hashem is proud of each one of you! (that includes me too) lol.

KEEP UP YOUR TREMENDOUS UPLIFTING IN THE AVODAH OF EMES!!

Thanks for reading! Stay shtark, I am also being challenged, just build your confidence, never quit no matter what, you are your strongest enemy and yet you are your strongest savior so you choose, I am not saying it's easy but am saying it's possible just takes effort and work!!
-from Emes-A-Yid

Re: YouTube leading to Fails... Any ideas? 13 Apr 2023 12:09 #394449

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Emes a Yid, what a man! Behatzlacha on every day you achieve another day of sobriety from youtube. Please speak to us before going onto youtube if you do "need" to for something. Because you actually might need it! Just get us involved before and after you do this. It is called bookending.

Re: YouTube leading to Fails... Any ideas? 14 Apr 2023 05:48 #394454

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Misgaber96 wrote on 13 Apr 2023 12:09:
Emes a Yid, what a man! Behatzlacha on every day you achieve another day of sobriety from youtube. Please speak to us before going onto youtube if you do "need" to for something. Because you actually might need it! Just get us involved before and after you do this. It is called bookending.

Thanks for the offer. I have been way more in tuned when not watching videos throughout the day, even during bn zman it’s so much more helpful. I have been walking a bit and I have a very strong grip to watch what I look at before hand and avoiding those situations when possible. Hashem has been with me, and BH it’s doing great for me

I can now say this although there was many days Yom Tov, it’s been almost 4 weeks no YT! 
amazing how time flies and Bh helped me to say the least from worse sites from such..
To my dear friend reading this:
You are an incredible yid for just being on this site, I am breath taken after each post or new person that comes on and shares a bit about himself, keep it up. You guys are mamash matzlichim in your own ways of growth and Hashem is proud of each one of you! (that includes me too) lol.

KEEP UP YOUR TREMENDOUS UPLIFTING IN THE AVODAH OF EMES!!

Thanks for reading! Stay shtark, I am also being challenged, just build your confidence, never quit no matter what, you are your strongest enemy and yet you are your strongest savior so you choose, I am not saying it's easy but am saying it's possible just takes effort and work!!
-from Emes-A-Yid

Re: YouTube leading to Fails... Any ideas? 15 Apr 2023 12:57 #394471

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Emes-a-Yid wrote on 14 Apr 2023 05:48:

Misgaber96 wrote on 13 Apr 2023 12:09:
Emes a Yid, what a man! Behatzlacha on every day you achieve another day of sobriety from youtube. Please speak to us before going onto youtube if you do "need" to for something. Because you actually might need it! Just get us involved before and after you do this. It is called bookending.

Thanks for the offer. I have been way more in tuned when not watching videos throughout the day, even during bn zman it’s so much more helpful. I have been walking a bit and I have a very strong grip to watch what I look at before hand and avoiding those situations when possible. Hashem has been with me, and BH it’s doing great for me

I can now say this although there was many days Yom Tov, it’s been almost 4 weeks no YT! 
amazing how time flies and Bh helped me to say the least from worse sites from such..

Amazing work! 
Thank you for sharing!
Hatzlacha Raba

Re: YouTube leading to Fails... Any ideas? 20 Apr 2023 00:31 #394726

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4 and a half weeks of no youtube! I only use it in very very specific cases, but bh doing great!
To my dear friend reading this:
You are an incredible yid for just being on this site, I am breath taken after each post or new person that comes on and shares a bit about himself, keep it up. You guys are mamash matzlichim in your own ways of growth and Hashem is proud of each one of you! (that includes me too) lol.

KEEP UP YOUR TREMENDOUS UPLIFTING IN THE AVODAH OF EMES!!

Thanks for reading! Stay shtark, I am also being challenged, just build your confidence, never quit no matter what, you are your strongest enemy and yet you are your strongest savior so you choose, I am not saying it's easy but am saying it's possible just takes effort and work!!
-from Emes-A-Yid
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