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New nisyonos - posting for accountability 14 Jun 2021 16:20 #369854

  • davidt
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Hi my dear friends
Lately we got new co-workers that are not dressed modest. (Even though they don't break the "dress code"). Besides the dressing the social interactions is also not the best.
So I'm just posting here to say, "I have this test and I must stay strong".
If I'll fail at this, I'll post it here ... accountability is always a good tool.
Hashem, please help us all do your will!
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
feel free to reach out @  ahavayirah@gmail.com

Re: New nisyonos - posting for accountability 15 Jun 2021 03:09 #369893

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Hatzlacha rabbah!!
with hashems help things will go well and we'll continue to only hear your very useful and insightful comments
Last Edit: 15 Jun 2021 03:10 by Zz613.

Re: New nisyonos - posting for accountability 15 Jun 2021 14:03 #369912

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It's interesting when we can apply in real life what we learn and talk about (it's called "practice what you preach") 
We can gain so much from a nisayon. If we know the truth that Hashem has sent it to us and he's watching every second to see how we'll deal with it, then it's much easier to overcome. 
Nisyonos make us strong. As long as we live we'll have tests. Lusting is running away from real life.
Thank you Hashem for giving me life and for giving me tests that I can overcome with your help!
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
feel free to reach out @  ahavayirah@gmail.com
Last Edit: 15 Jun 2021 14:03 by davidt.

Re: New nisyonos - posting for accountability 15 Jun 2021 20:41 #369931

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UPDATE:
I would like to point out an interesting observation. We have the ability to downplay certain situations so it should not be such a big nisayon. Sometimes we're just making a big deal out of nothing. I'm trying to focus on myself and the work I need to get done. Not everything that goes on around me has to be noticed and digested. 
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
feel free to reach out @  ahavayirah@gmail.com
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