Read once, then minimize to save screen space.

Forum Overview

Post on the forum to get support, tell your story and reach out for help when feeling weak!

You will never be alone in this struggle again.

The GYE forum is anonymous platform of group support, and a life-line of chizuk for hundreds of people in exactly your situation. 

To use the forum you need to first become a member of the site, sign up here.

After signing up to the site, go to the forum, enter one of our boards and press "New Topic" to begin posting! 

Welcome, Guest

I want a girl so badly
(0 viewing) 
A platform of recovery for Jews who find themselves struggling with addictions to pornography, masturbation or other sexual problems. Post anonymously about your struggles without fear of anyone finding out who you are. Ask questions, post answers and be inspired! Get tips and guidance from the experts who moderate this forum, as well as from fellow strugglers.

TOPIC: I want a girl so badly 3365 Views

Re: I want a girl so badly 10 Sep 2021 16:32 #372324

  • Hashem Help Me
  • Current streak: 1772 days
  • OFFLINE
  • Platinum Boarder
  • Posts: 2785
FighterWithFire wrote on 09 Sep 2021 21:56:

Hashem Help Me wrote on 09 Sep 2021 11:18:
Beautiful! Keep it up! What has worked for you?

As embarrassed as I am to say it, it was really being in Yeshiva that helped.
Why am I embarrassed?
Because I just fell.
After 33 clean days.
Was at home for the fast, lonely and bored, the lust hit...and I fell.


So like many guys out there, the structure of yeshiva is very beneficial for you. Plan ahead to bain hazmanim. Set yourself up safe - 1. A realistic productive schedule. 2. Strict guidelines to treat any unfiltered devices at home as muktzeh.
Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com

My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned

                    My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: I want a girl so badly 10 Sep 2021 18:40 #372332

  • Captain
  • OFFLINE
  • Platinum Boarder
  • Posts: 368
  • Karma: 20
Hashem Help Me wrote on 10 Sep 2021 16:32:

FighterWithFire wrote on 09 Sep 2021 21:56:

Hashem Help Me wrote on 09 Sep 2021 11:18:
Beautiful! Keep it up! What has worked for you?

As embarrassed as I am to say it, it was really being in Yeshiva that helped.
Why am I embarrassed?
Because I just fell.
After 33 clean days.
Was at home for the fast, lonely and bored, the lust hit...and I fell.



So like many guys out there, the structure of yeshiva is very beneficial for you. Plan ahead to bain hazmanim. Set yourself up safe - 1. A realistic productive schedule. 2. Strict guidelines to treat any unfiltered devices at home as muktzeh.

If I may add, 3) chizuk every day for fighting this taivah, to remember how we were motivated in yeshiva and keep that fire up ( see what I did there?)
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation 
https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: 
https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/
Time to create page: 0.29 seconds

Are you sure?

Yes