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Did marraige help or not. 19 Dec 2009 20:21 #35854

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OK, this is to clear up once and for all, the idea that I keep on seeing on the posts from the singles, that they only have a desire for certain things because they don't have any outlet otherwise.
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Re: Did marraige help or not. 19 Dec 2009 21:20 #35864

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To quote Rabbi Twerski:

It is important to know that the addiction is under control before considering marriage. Marriage is not a hospital and does not cure addiction, and continuation of the addiction is likely to ruin a marriage.

See also this enlightening page.
Webmaster of www.guardyoureyes.org - Maintaining Moral Purity in Today's World. We’re here on a quest ; it’s really all a test. Just do your best and G-d will do the rest.
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Re: Did marraige help or not. 19 Dec 2009 21:42 #35872

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Ive posted so many time on this issue that im done on it. Im just going to say that i think and feel that marriage does not help. If someone wants to understand my view better he can pm or email/gchat.
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Re: Did marraige help or not. 01 Jan 2010 07:01 #40898

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i dont believe that the poll is offering the right options. this is not a yes or no answer.
By me at least marriage made my problem DIFFERENT. things were more clear, yet more difficult. i had more ammunition in my armory but i was fighting a different war.
"The passion and the flame is ignited,
you cant put it out once we light it"
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Re: Did marraige help or not. 01 Jan 2010 07:04 #40900

NO
LV
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