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Mikvah for Men After a Fall 19 Oct 2018 16:36 #336414

I'm curious if guys go to the mikvah after they fall. I always feel a little weird davening or learning after a recent fall. I'm curious if guys find it easier to feel a connection to Hashem after using the mikvah?


P.S. Obviously we need to focus on the roots of our issues and be honest with ourselves. I'm not suggesting otherwise.

Re: Mikvah for Men After a Fall 19 Oct 2018 19:03 #336419

I've been going to mikvah daily since my bm, it gives me a certain feeling that I'm kinda pure, but it definitely didn't stop me, sometimes I would even think to myself, I'd act out and then go to mikvah following morning and I'll be pure.. but definitely does help me feel a connection to hashem especially after I have a wet dream r"l
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Re: Mikvah for Men After a Fall 22 Oct 2018 19:09 #336522

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don't go to the mikva at all because... and it takes a day or two till i feel comfortable davening or learning at all. so yea, avaira goreres... 
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