There is a Malbim that makes a differentiation between wanting and desiring.
I desire to view tuma, but I DON'T WANT to.
What is my WHY?
WHY do I do what I do? WHY do I get up everyday? WHY do I got to work or learn or whatever?
That's our WANT-
he tuma is our desires.
We must remember what our WANT is; our WHY. Then we can differentiate between the tayva (desire) and our lives (WANT).
This idea hit me from listening to this shiur:
www.torahanytime.com/#/lectures?v=33348
And the WHY is an idea from Eric Thomas, Motivational Speaker.