guardureyes wrote on 01 Oct 2009 19:46:
Mr.B is right. We don't really want anything from anyone else. The bottom line is, that all the pleasure that happens during relations really goes on in our own minds and bodies. The climax is the exact same pleasure, whether you are with or without someone else. The whole "other person" thing was created only so that we should reproduce, but it really has nothing to do with the other person at all. It's all a master "trick" of the Creator, so that we pro-create.
If we can see lust for what it really is, we will understand that we actually have no interest at all in anyone but ourselves.
WE NEED TO INTERNALIZE THESE ROCK BOTTOM TRUISMS
BEFORE JOHNS WIFE SHOWS UP
LIGHTS AND
SIRENS WHEN SHE COMES WITHOUT WARNING ALL ADVICE IS WORTHLESS!!