Sorry. I'm not continuing the disc. Just answering uri.
TrYiNg wrote on 15 Oct 2009 05:29:
But why do that have to wear the skirts short? Can't a skirt look good a little longer?
Is there a reason, other than to entice men, to wear shorter skirts?
Complicated question. Simple answer.
Women like looking good.
Today's looking good= fashionable.
Today's fashionable= short skirts...etc
Trying,you know I think you are very deep and awesome.
But you are lying to yourself.
This conversation is getting tiring.
But women want people,men and women to think they are pretty,especially men.
This is their tayva.
And we have our tayva.
We are not just pigs.
We both have the same issue.
Pashut.
And many women do want men to lust after them.
I had many friends that were girls growing up.
You come from a more yeshivish/frum place,but I can testify that this is a fact among others.
Tayva is tayva.
Don't confuse the issue.
L,
Uri
You're 100 percent right. Women have a tayva to impress men. YET----this is not the reason they dress the way they do on a daily basis. (I understood that's what we were discussing.) A frum women doesn't put on a makeup and think ' oh goody, now all the guys on the strt will think I'm georgous". She knows she looks pretty and feels good about it. They would be horrified of the thought that they might have been machshil other men. And if she talks to a guy and he stares at her in that way, she won't feel good. She'd feel like she's treated as an object, instead of takin seriously. (Disclaimer:I'm talking about frum women, in general. There are always ppl who need attention and will get it any way possible)