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GYE SIYUM MISHNAYOS - please join! (Glauber) 05 Mar 2013 01:25 #203016

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In case you didn't know,

there was a terrible tragedy in williamsburg on Motzi Shabbos,

a 21 year old couple (Heimishe) where going by cab to the hospital to deliver their

first child,

There cab was hit by hit and run driver and both where niftar.

The doctors where able to perform an emergancy c-section to save the child, but the

child was niftar today as well.




I find this story to sad for words, and I feel personally responsible (a bit) you know,

maybe if I hadn't been such a sh**ck Hashem wouldn't have had to send this wake up call.

Anyways, I feel a big hisorerus to do something lilui nishmasam, (not something big,

because it probably won't happen, but some thing small and meaningful and maybe we can

use this as an opportunity for growth...

I don't have any concrete plans yet but I'd like to hear if anybody else had a good idea,

and we could make maybe a kind of a group kabola (maybe even only for a short period of

time)

Also if anybody knows there full names (ie avraham ben moshe) could you post it here

p.s. even the goyim in my office heard of this story (and we live about 500 miles away from ny.)
Last Edit: 14 Mar 2013 02:32 by mr. emunah.

Re: Shaken up by the Glauber Tragedy 05 Mar 2013 01:34 #203017

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This is a sad incident that took place and I hope my response doesn't come off disrespectfully.

Being sad for people like us, with our challenge is very dangerous. The percentage of people falling because they're down about something is extremely high.

Perhaps something we can do l'ilui nishmas this couple and their child is Ivdu es Hashem b'simcha (serve Hashem with joy).
Last Edit: 05 Mar 2013 01:36 by skeptical.

Re: Shaken up by the Glauber Tragedy 05 Mar 2013 01:42 #203020

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exactly,
I'm not suggesting becoming sad, rather to capitalize on any hisoreus that may have come out from this.

we must never be sad

although, I think a lev nishbar from time to time will be helpfull..

I for one was thinking of not accessing my zone-out website (nhl.com) for at

least one day (I know it's not a very treifa website, but that's the reason why it's a good kabolah - it's sort of a kadesh atzmacha bimutar loch - a very small victory, so small that we almost don't mind following through, and we all know the klal - Pischu li pesach shel machat, vaani eftach loch pesach shel ulam.

Re: Shaken up by the Glauber Tragedy 05 Mar 2013 03:28 #203042

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*update*

Torah=simcha

Mishnayos=Torah

Does anybody think it's feasible to make a siyum mishnayos here on GYE?

I think I can manage 2 or 3 mesechtas (it shouldn't take more than a few minutes a day)

it would be rally beautiful if we could do taht and it would be an ilui for there neshamos, AND for ours (boy could we use it)

and if anybody thinks the whole shisha sidrei is too much maybe we can just do 1 seder (like moed or something)?

Step right up, Step right up!

Looking for anybody who wants to join me...

Re: Shaken up by the Glauber Tragedy 06 Mar 2013 02:52 #203087

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Still looking for people to join...

I will im yirtze hashem be learning Rosh Hashana,

Please feel free to take as many masechtos as you like.

P.S. I did the abstinance from my website today lilui nishmasam...

I would like some more eitzot.

Re: Shaken up by the Glauber Tragedy 06 Mar 2013 23:04 #203152

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I have also dedicted a bit of my daily learning for them, it helps, because suddenly the learning isn't a selfish thing anymore...
Last Edit: 06 Mar 2013 23:05 by mr. emunah.

Re: Shaken up by the Glauber Tragedy 07 Mar 2013 22:03 #203213

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I finished the 1st 2 perakim of Rosh Hashana,

we are still accepting volunteers.

Re: Shaken up by the Glauber Tragedy 09 Mar 2013 00:28 #203291

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ill do berachos

i really like this idea
Last Edit: 09 Mar 2013 01:46 by inastruggle.

Re: Shaken up by the Glauber Tragedy 09 Mar 2013 00:30 #203292

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did anyone get their names yet?

Re: Shaken up by the Glauber Tragedy 11 Mar 2013 22:38 #203355

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Their names are Nachman and Raizy Glauber (I don't know the parents names yet, but if some one can post them, the please do so)

Thanks IAS for joining!

we are still looking for more takers...

Re: Shaken up by the Glauber Tragedy 14 Mar 2013 02:33 #203529

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Let this siyum mishnayos be lilui nishmas all of us AND the Glaubers Z"L

Please Join us!
Last Edit: 14 Mar 2013 02:35 by mr. emunah.

Re: Shaken up by the Glauber Tragedy 14 Mar 2013 19:05 #203540

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just finished 3rd perek of Rosh Hashana.
Last Edit: 14 Mar 2013 19:05 by mr. emunah.

Re: Shaken up by the Glauber Tragedy 15 Mar 2013 03:11 #203591

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I'll take gittin
do you have a time frame? finish by?
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: Shaken up by the Glauber Tragedy 15 Mar 2013 18:26 #203612

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preferably by the shloshim

I think it falls out towards the end of Passsover


Thank you for joining TZ

P.S. I have finished Rosh Hashana
I will now Bli Neder do Taanis


P.S. There is still more opportunities to join

Step right up...

Re: Shaken up by the Glauber Tragedy 15 Mar 2013 18:37 #203619

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will do Middos bl'n
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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