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Bein Hazmanim 12 Sep 2012 10:19 #144922

shtickelherring Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 2 Karma: 0	I'm off home for sukkos iy'h...can anyone offer advice/eitzos for a successful and clean bein hazmanim? The hardest times of the year, away from the koslei beis medrash... Thanks!

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No helpful advice. Been there, done that, unfortunately.
One thing, though- I heard from one of my Rebbeim that what one accomplishes during a period of aliyah is not a proof to what one will do during a period of bein hazmanim. But when one sees the differences between THIS bein hazmanim and LAST bein hazmanim, that is proof of real growth. So don't sweat the bein hazmanim too much, and remember another zman is coming after.

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Re: Bein Hazmanim 12 Sep 2012 19:56 #144943

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kavias itim. Stay regular, and stay busy. the above list is helpful too, but make sure you dont have long periods of time with nothing planed that you are committed to do (good things obviously). also make sure gedarim at home are stronger than yeshiva. for example, I am relativly lenient with where I use my computer (which still has filters) at yeshiva, but at home where I know I am at risk I will only use internet if my family is home and my door is wide open. halachos Yichud essentially.
the main thing though is having a steady stream of kedusha in your life. even if you stumble, do not let there be no regularity in tov.
bhatzlacha!

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