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Re: For how long by now? 09 Aug 2012 20:02 #143310

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its takke scary :D do you know likewise beal pe, TZ ?

share your secret.

like this: ?



You know you're pretty long on GYE, ...
-if you try to remember and even to record your conversations with your friends in Real Life- what for? maybe you will be asked a question, and like this you can just quote what somebody already said

-if you actually answer in Real Life quoting yourself/your friends, something like this:
"hey yanki, how is the weather like?
-well, moish, like oncle shmuli said on the 13th of may this year exactly 14:02:56 o'clock: its actually very good"
or it can go like this:
"-avrumi? you remember what the rov said? was it mutar or ossur?
-here, rivki, take this recording of our conversation with him, its somewhere towards the end" ;D

Re: For how long by now? 09 Aug 2012 20:07 #143313

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RT wrote on 09 Aug 2012 20:02:


You know you're pretty long on GYE, ...
-if you try to remember and even to record your conversations with your friends in Real Life- what for? maybe you will be asked a question, and like this you can just quote what somebody already said

-if you actually answer in Real Life quoting yourself/your friends, something like this:
"hey yanki, how is the weather like?
-well, moish, like oncle shmuli said on the 13th of may this year exactly 14:02:56 o'clock: its actually very good"
or it can go like this:
"-avrumi? you remember what the rov said? was it mutar or ossur?
-here, rivki, take this recording of our conversation with him, its somewhere towards the end" ;D






What kind of a Newbie do you think I am? You think I need a mareh makom for that?
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: For how long by now? 09 Aug 2012 20:16 #143316

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:D ;D omg, TZ, i give up, you won.

but what about sharing the way how to do it? lav davka befarhesya, you can pm me

Re: For how long by now? 09 Aug 2012 23:36 #143330

LOL and What is the slang for "jaw dropped" JD?

Well JD to that.

Seriously I have trouble remembering which threads I wrote in and I see you quoting from years ago.
Hashem Yishmor.

Re: For how long by now? 10 Aug 2012 03:27 #143350

2 days for me not including today which so far with hashems help has been a great day so far

and TZ I'm sorry but it was too tempting to do this, and I am only doing it lovingly as I don't want the kovod getting to your head, I do appreaciate when you share quality posts making it easier to get straight to the good stuff.
some times TZ can not always find exactly where everything is:
TehillimZugger wrote on 06 Aug 2012 19:48:



But aren't there people in the GYE community who manage to stay sober for years without SA?

Like AlexEliezer for instance, see his story here (elsewhere in more detail, but I can't find it now, the point is though that it's possible).

P.S. anyone looking for chizuk should read alex's story he is a great role model and I really admire his strength
but back to TZ some of his ability to quote random maramikomos on the forum is with hard work and lots of searching,

TehillimZugger wrote on 09 Aug 2012 13:33:

P.S. See Here and Here.
P.S.S. The second link isn't linkidized, I spent AGES looking for that post Gevurah made where he calculates exactly how long it would take to reach 90,000,000,000,000 hi's. Where is it?

so TZ thanks for not only always being so active and helpful on this forum but for putting in so much effort to help us get the most out of our time here.

love you

KOT all!!
SOH

Re: For how long by now? 10 Aug 2012 03:35 #143351

Hmm... What is this "Hard Work" you speak of?

So thats the secret.

2 days here as well and today was a SICK day as in GREAT.

Looking forward to be able to look back and say... either "Wow!".... or "Booyakasha!"
Im undecided at the moment, but its gonna be great Im sure.. for now lets work on getting to bed on time and having a clean day tommorow.

Re: For how long by now? 10 Aug 2012 09:36 #143364

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SoldierOfHashem wrote on 10 Aug 2012 03:27:

2 days for me not including today which so far with hashems help has been a great day so far

and TZ I'm sorry but it was too tempting to do this, and I am only doing it lovingly as I don't want the kovod getting to your head, I do appreaciate when you share quality posts making it easier to get straight to the good stuff.
some times TZ can not always find exactly where everything is:




But aren't there people in the GYE community who manage to stay sober for years without SA?

Like AlexEliezer for instance, see his story here (elsewhere in more detail, but I can't find it now, the point is though that it's possible).

P.S. anyone looking for chizuk should read alex's story he is a great role model and I really admire his strength
but back to TZ some of his ability to quote random maramikomos on the forum is with hard work and lots of searching,



P.S. See Here and Here.
P.S.S. The second link isn't linkidized, I spent AGES looking for that post Gevurah made where he calculates exactly how long it would take to reach 90,000,000,000,000 hi's. Where is it?

so TZ thanks for not only always being so active and helpful on this forum but for putting in so much effort to help us get the most out of our time here.

love you

KOT all!!
SOH



Awesome. Can you help me with this project?


עבודת גמר לקבלת תואר דוקטור

מאת: תהילים זָגֶר

אוניברסיטאי העברית

פה מאה שערים

במנהגי חברי גי"א

מקורותיהם והמשך התפתחותם מפיהם ומפי כתבם




BTW, you left out:



הרב מבארדיטשוב [שיחזור ויתגלה לנו במהרה בימנו] כתב* שמקור המנהג הוא מיוסף הצדיק שליט"א, לא מצאתי כעת מקור המנהג בדברי רבינו יוסף עצמו,





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also


BB doesn't like when we hijack his threadsee here for instance

[btw, the mareh mako for that is [url=http://www.guardyoureyes.org/forum/index.php?topic=2893.msg142429#msg142429]here[/url].]
also
there's a post where I wrote see
here and here and here.

but the forum stopped working (see here for shteeble's poll about that) so i can no longer provide mareh mekomos...
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: For how long by now? 10 Aug 2012 10:31 #143365

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29 days and shabbes will be (unless my planes will change) day 30.


TehillimZugger wrote on 10 Aug 2012 09:36:


TehillimZugger wrote on 07 Aug 2012 10:54:

BB doesn't like when we hijack his threadsee here for instance



Its not only BB who doesnt like it.. >

Re: For how long by now? 10 Aug 2012 11:57 #143373

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?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: For how long by now? 10 Aug 2012 11:57 #143374

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I meant: :-X
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
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Re: For how long by now? 11 Aug 2012 21:37 #143440

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baruch haShem, no other plans. day 30!

Re: For how long by now? 12 Aug 2012 04:12 #143463

;D that would have been a good one to include.
and sorry but I cant help you with your project as I have my own to work on and working on projects causes me to procrastinate and that is probably my number 1 antecedent leading me to go into lust mode. But good luck with that

5 Days

JKG how are you doing?

Re: For how long by now? 12 Aug 2012 05:23 #143467

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which project?


ps. 31 days. (veyesh omrim, just 30 days)

Re: For how long by now? 12 Aug 2012 17:26 #143506

Well today is day 4 and G-d willing Ill make it through, having some cravings

Re: For how long by now? 12 Aug 2012 18:13 #143510

JustKeepGoing wrote on 12 Aug 2012 17:26:

Well today is day 4 and G-d willing Ill make it through, having some cravings
'

G-d is willing why don't you ask him to step in and take over all he wants is for you to ask "please can you help"

and RT the project that TZ asked for help with

KOminiMT


i tried posting a pic but I'll have to figure out how to do that another time so heres a link (RT I think this is your mini monster truck you were looking for ;D
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