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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Oct 2009 02:29 #22466

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I am still in the fight, no slips yet today. Almost there. Trying to make it until yom tov which will be somewhat easier.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Oct 2009 02:31 #22467

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blessed wrote on 09 Oct 2009 02:29:

I am still in the fight, no slips yet today. Almost there. Trying to make it until yom tov which will be somewhat easier.


Fantastic!
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Oct 2009 04:12 #22476

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blessed wrote on 09 Oct 2009 02:29:

I am still in the fight, no slips yet today. Almost there. Trying to make it until yom tov which will be somewhat easier.


Chazak Chazak! V'Nischazeik!  Your strength infuses us all with the strength to forge ahead

With tremendous respect to a fellow warrior

Noorah
[b]כי שבע יפול צדיק וקם[/b] 
A Tzadik is he who continues to  bounce back after he hits bottom, even a hundred times !!!!!Rav Don Segal Shlita
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Oct 2009 16:00 #22509

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We are rooting for you. waiting for good news.
זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Oct 2009 17:51 #22514

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hi  i am new to this site. how do i sign up to use the chat room.  i need help. thanks
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Oct 2009 19:25 #22519

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Hey buddy , You can email me at bestrong88@gmail.com,

Id love to help  out another Yid

Stay Strong!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Oct 2009 19:57 #22521

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sam15 wrote on 09 Oct 2009 17:51:

hi  i am new to this site. how do i sign up to use the chat room.  i need help. thanks


I tried can't figure it out. I use gchat
זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Oct 2009 20:01 #22523

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Holy Yid wrote on 09 Oct 2009 19:57:

sam15 wrote on 09 Oct 2009 17:51:

hi  i am new to this site. how do i sign up to use the chat room.  i need help. thanks


I tried can't figure it out. I use gchat


I haven't tried chatting yet, but, in the meantime, please start with posting on the forum.
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 13 Oct 2009 16:52 #23015

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slipped a little  last night and feel myself about to fall big time. I've put too much sweat and tears into this to let this happen. If someone is around please  help -  luria.gye@gmail.com
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 13 Oct 2009 17:01 #23019

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just sent u an invite to chat with me, u get it?
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 13 Oct 2009 17:23 #23024

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I cant chat with you Luria, but you can PM or talk on the forum. We're here, so you arent alone. 
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 15 Oct 2009 02:32 #23481

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I am in need of some urgent help...

I made it to 90 days last week and have been feeling much more settled and free of lustful temptation than I have in a long time. Then, the other night I was innocently changing channels on the television and despite the parent guard settings I had in place, I caught a glimpse of full frontal nudity. I doubt I saw the screen for more than half a second and I decisively turned the channel away... but the image is still very clear in my mind and has ignited my lust and desire to see more.

There is of course the issue of eliminating the TV or putting further blocks on it, but this has family-wide implications I cannot deal with at the moment. My immediate concern is how to calm down the feelings of lust and desire for p**n that are raging within me. So far, I have not fallen, but I am feeling very, very vulnerable. Any help would be much appreciated.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 15 Oct 2009 02:41 #23482

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Hi, sorry to hear that u r struggling!

I will share with u some talmudic wisdom, a prayer actually from the mouth of the YH himself.

Say out loud to yourself "may the Merciful One do battle with my evil inclination"

Try it! U have nothing to lose.......except the lust (I couldn't resist that pun )

Noorah
[b]כי שבע יפול צדיק וקם[/b] 
A Tzadik is he who continues to  bounce back after he hits bottom, even a hundred times !!!!!Rav Don Segal Shlita
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 15 Oct 2009 03:14 #23487

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You made it to 90 days, before even introducing yourself?  That's amazing!  Why not start your own thread and tell us about yourself.

As to what to do now, how about printing out the GYE handbooks, getting off the computer, and reading them.
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 15 Oct 2009 03:18 #23488

hey Mezi , stay strong ,good luck! take a break, look at the sky . go do something you like. remember H' loves you and you're special to him.
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