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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Aug 2011 20:38 #113575

gevura shebyesod
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I did'nt want Shteig to hurt his hands. This way is easier

!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Aug 2011 20:39 #113576

shteighecher Current streak: 24 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder KOT. ODAAT. Keep on Trucking. One Day At A Time. Posts: 216 Karma: 0	What do you have ?can we look at the half that is full ? is it only half full or maybe more. Thank you Gevura for helping me. Together WE CAN.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 24 Aug 2011 03:00 #116072

Chasdei Avos	please sto p me i am about to shut this site and move on to indulge... i need chizuk, after being clkean for almost two years, then fell last week and this week. hopiong that io did not lose everything i worked for so hard with Hashems help.pleeeaaase
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 24 Aug 2011 06:53 #116090

mechazek OFFLINE Gold Boarder men darf alla mohl mechazek zein Posts: 268 Karma: 0	I care for you so much. Please take it one moment at a time,just turn away and say a tefillah a real heartfalt tefillah.Just do it for this minute as soon you are about to press the key daven to hashem to hashem that what you are looking for in the porn you should find with him.You can do this over and over I do it tens of times a day. Hatzlachah.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 24 Aug 2011 07:47 #116099

Holy Yid Current streak: 92 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Keep the mind engaged and the soul content Posts: 894 Karma: 1	Don't panic that makes it worse. Let go. ask Hashem for help. He will provide it.
	זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים Last Edit: by .

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 24 Aug 2011 16:35 #116183

Chasdei Avos	thanks chevra. Mechaek: sounds like good advice, but i was so weak that I do not know if i could have or wanted to stop and daven to Hashem. I think I just wanted to indulge myself. This morning was even harder. How camn I stop myself from spiralling out of control into a free fall. I am actually free falling, the only question is if I can stop on my way down, before I splat my guts on the floor
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 24 Aug 2011 16:50 #116187

ben durdayah Current streak: 49 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder No, that is not a mouse... Posts: 1253 Karma: 5	Very Simple. (Repeat after me three times, out loud): I do not HAVE to, if I do not want to. I will not die if I do not ________(fill in the blank).
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 24 Aug 2011 16:56 #116191

Chasdei Avos	ILL TRY IT. THANKS
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 28 Aug 2011 01:56 #116583

ontheedgeman OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 391 Karma: 0	soak yourself in Torah!!! Drag yourself to the Beis Midrasha and learn learn learn. Avodah Zara.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 02 Sep 2011 01:46 #117358

futuregadol Current streak: 10 days OFFLINE User	I feel if I don't get some chizuk soon i'm going to fall. please help!!!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 02 Sep 2011 13:12 #117393

yedid_nefesh	why don't trying just till holding on till tonight.Then when you daven kabbbolas Shabbos tonight you will be so happy that you held pack, you'll fell on top of the world I guarantee
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 02 Sep 2011 15:09 #117406

helpfyi OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 333 Karma: 0	i'm going a weekend bar mizvah this shabbos and i'm scared i'm gonna look, i don't feel strong enough that i will be able to hold back!!!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Sep 2011 21:48 #117593

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 383	Well, are you strong enough, or are you not?
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 05 Sep 2011 20:03 #117695

helpfyi OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 333 Karma: 0	defiantly better then in the past but not as good as i can be.... still got work to do.....
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 06 Sep 2011 17:10 #117795

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The reason I asked is because I am definitely not strong enough. I am dead serious. It's a Chessed that I am not distracted by the women most of the time.

Whereas, all my history proves I am able to accomplish by my own best thinking and hard work was trying as hard as I could to get a little distracted by the bar-mitzvah or wedding I was attending! The women - whether I fought it or not - were clearly and by far, the overrriding main focus of my personal attention and thought.

To me, what is the difference between focusing totally on fighting the lust, or actually lusting? Very little in the long run. I see it as exactly like being chased by a rosho in a car: eventually I will get tired - he has a full tank of gas and I cannot run 300 miles. So why try at all? I need to get off the road, period. That's what I mean by surrender and giving up. Trying a totally different path than the one I was always on.

I do not know what you need to do.

"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

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