I have an incredible mashal for SA. But my suggestion is a very controversial one. I would like to suggest to the oilam to watch an MTV Tv Show. It was actually filmed right next to my yeshiva, so I saw it in real action. But the whole Tv Show is a mashal. If i have caught the attention of any moderater, i would like to ask you reshus if i may post up the link on this thread. If the show was a regular show which could be a metaphor and could not be, i would not even bother. But this whole show, encompasses every idea we learn here. From abstinence making you stronger, to the great yetzer hara's trick, this TV show of 12 series shows exactly that, and i firmly beleive, that in watching it, the oilam will get more benefit than harm. Please respond to this question even if you are not a moderater or guard.