Yes bain hazmanim is in the air, a time that has too much time. I have always had issues with bain hazmanim and this time i want to get it right. I would like to hear some chizzick from the boys regarding this and i think many of us have had issues with this in the past.

MY PLAN-
-Keeping busy- that's the key i took a project in learning that i hope will keep me busy.
-not going to places where there are alot of prizutz. this is not easy bec its everywhere, but i can limit it to places where it is better. Prepare before i go and daven to hashem.
-stay away from the PC for too long, it just causes bad.....
- make a sader that you wont miss no matter what! even if its 20 min!

please share your ideas!

frumfiend wrote on 08 Oct 2010 23:07:



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thanks but there is always room for more chizzuck!   

Wow helpfyi, u seem to have a shtark bain hazmanim schedule here. Umm, Rav Aharon Kotler once made a seder to a bachur who just came from college and gave him a 10 min. chavrusa shaft at night with his roomate right before sleep to learn tanach. This would remove the influence at nights.

I can suggest to you, to go to kol halashon on the phone- kolhaloshon.org, they have the numbers there.

Like you said, u have a sader thats shtark.

Ur Keepin busy,

And what else,...This is stupid advice (at least for me) but go ahead and start on a new project or organization. This is soooo good at keeping ur mind busy and ur time. It kills alot of time. Hope I helped you

khoskor wrote on 04 Aug 2011 20:53:


i got a good laugh out of that! thanks for the tips!

ha, thanks

busy shmizzy

get a filter on every device u own

bardichev wrote on 04 Aug 2011 21:12:


i for sure do have that!  but the street is the prob and i wish there was filter there! 

make only small sheurim 30 minutes max, make your self some goals what to finish in the bein hazmanim, speak to local older serious frum people for advice.

JackAbbey wrote on 05 Aug 2011 13:37:


you can't say general thing to only learn 30 min max each person has to judge him own strength.

thanks for your interest!

hey everyone hows the bain hazmanim going hope you all are keeping busy, i am here on GYE !

I think connecting with other people really works for those times when I'm on break from learning. If I can really enjoy hanging out with my wife, kids, or friends (in a place where there are no triggers) it really helps.
So do something you like with someone you like -
Fun with friends is the antidote to fun with enemies.

thanks for that tip thats a great idea!

WISHING YOU MUCH HATZLACHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yosef Hatzadiks point is that one day you might not have a zeman and them you will have the struggles of bein hazemanim all the time. If you want to avoid it you need to learn to live in a way that excludes the YH from being in charge.

Here is another idea. There are 3-5 hours a day of GYE conference calls. Join all of them for the rest of bein hazemanim.

All the best.

HY

I wish I had bein hazmanim... I hardly have an hour to learn a day, and barely make ends meet. Halevy some day the aibishter should help me get back to a half day learning.