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Re: i fell and need to begin 15 Aug 2011 08:21 #114564

sababa	Thanks mechazek It started when I got up I thought only women And I told myself I'll just start and stop in the middle and I did began but I had to finish and I fell It's hard for me,am I can?
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Re: i fell and need to begin 15 Aug 2011 10:55 #114565

Jackabbey Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 835 Karma: 0	lets not allow him entrance at all, if the cage is open the lion will come out and attack, so lets keep that cage door shut, lets remmember, this is the challange hashem want us to accomplish, otherwise we wouldnt have them, lets go thru it together, we will make it.
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Re: i fell and need to begin 15 Aug 2011 18:09 #114642

mechazek OFFLINE Gold Boarder men darf alla mohl mechazek zein Posts: 268 Karma: 0	sabab my dear freind yes it can be done you just keep yourself open and keep on writing what is going on with you that is a great step.What can you learn from this fall?what do you think you can do different next time? Your yetzer harah is teelling you,zeh anie anie chayav aval zeh sheker v'chazav,because really you obviously dont want this and that is why you are here.what do you think?
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Re: i fell and need to begin 17 Aug 2011 10:33 #114959

sababa	I hope to stop. I understand - there is no such thing as falling After every fall get up! And you're going and manage to get up Also if you're fall-not terrible. Have to get up not to despair That's what I understood from the fall Good luck my brothers! You can
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Re: i fell and need to begin 17 Aug 2011 10:37 #114960

mechazek OFFLINE Gold Boarder men darf alla mohl mechazek zein Posts: 268 Karma: 0	yes such true words.like someone once said falling is only if you are going up you fall down but when you are walking straight you dont fall only stop and then continue going.
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Re: i fell and need to begin 21 Aug 2011 08:41 #115554

sababa	My brothers I was now שא site's not nice -with Women's I want to masterbate?What to do? Thanks
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Re: i fell and need to begin 21 Aug 2011 15:22 #115564

mechazek OFFLINE Gold Boarder men darf alla mohl mechazek zein Posts: 268 Karma: 0	hi sababa nice to hear from you. Maybe go do something that takes energy like play some ball or go running or beat up your younger brother.
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Re: i fell and need to begin 21 Aug 2011 17:09 #115570

obormottel OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1440 Karma: 6	Go with the brother beating - this way you need not get out of the house
	Baby steps. If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas! Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans. Last Edit: by .

Re: i fell and need to begin 21 Aug 2011 19:45 #115579

mechazek OFFLINE Gold Boarder men darf alla mohl mechazek zein Posts: 268 Karma: 0	and you might keep him out of trouble to.
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Re: i fell and need to begin 28 Aug 2011 10:59 #116612

sababa	I fell Now What to do this very very hard!
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Re: i fell and need to begin 28 Aug 2011 11:31 #116614

mechazek OFFLINE Gold Boarder men darf alla mohl mechazek zein Posts: 268 Karma: 0	Hi sababa nice to see you are back.My heart is with you.
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Re: i fell and need to begin 28 Aug 2011 14:20 #116618

sababa	Thank you my brother
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Re: i fell and need to begin 28 Aug 2011 18:28 #116634

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Sababa- try to clearly experience the feeling of helplessness you feel in these moments of weakness. Realize how completely powerless you are to your desire. You are on a website screaming out for help but yet you still are powerless to your temptations. Experience this honesty vividly. Its the pit of emptiness. Allow this feeling of powerlessness to be your guide in allowing you to realize that you need help. You've taken step one by reaching out, now take step two and truly give yourself over to this site and the people who can guide you towards recovery. And then recovery will begin. Give yourself over now!!!!! You are not smarter then your addiction, YOU NEED HELP!

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Re: i fell and need to begin 28 Aug 2011 18:43 #116636

sababa	Thanks Yossi But it's very hard for me, and it disappoints me I do not know what to do Thanks brothers
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Re: i fell and need to begin 28 Aug 2011 19:31 #116643

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Of course you do not know what to do; and of course its very hard for you. That's what all of us are here for. There's no easy way out. There's no quick solution. It's the fight of your life. You've taken step 1: that is to realize that you have an addiction. You've even had the courage to reach out for help. Now have the courage to accept the help, and follow it even though your desires are overwhelming.

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