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Re: life of a lamed vavnik 26 Aug 2009 04:46 #14241

  • Tomim2B
Lamed Vavnik, in switching your job, I wish you all of my blessings. Though every life decision involves risk, it is only when we are willing to take the risks of our decisions that we find opportunity. With trust in Hashem I'm certain that He will guide you toward the right decision. I don't doubt that.

Your focusing on your strengths as well as the positive things in your life, as you are doing, is a great way to overcome this struggle you are having with the y"h. The y"h who feeds off of our sense of emptiness and lacking won't have a shot at you.

Keep up the great work, stride after stride! From 20 onward! 

2B
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Re: life of a lamed vavnik 27 Aug 2009 12:27 #14476

thanx a lot guys .
it 's a wonderful feeling to see people actually care about my ramblings. i have the job changing on hold for now . but the house needs a lot of t'filois . the satan just doesn't seem to want me to settle down in one place. Is there such a thing as a wandering "lamed vavnik"?  ??? :o ;D
keep up the chizuk guys .
23 days!
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Re: life of a lamed vavnik 27 Aug 2009 15:55 #14525

  • bardichev
THE BEST THING OF BEING A LAMED VAVNIK IS

DOING WHAT THE YH TAUGHT YOU

BUT.. BUT.. FARKERT (OPPOSITE)

DO HIDDEN MITZVOS!!!

HERE IS A QUICKIE

MIKVA IN THE MORNING THROW ALL THE TOWELS ON THE FLOOR IN THE BIN

b
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Re: life of a lamed vavnik 28 Aug 2009 09:41 #14618

thanx Mr. B
is this going to help me get a house? ??? :D
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Re: life of a lamed vavnik 28 Aug 2009 14:21 #14646

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bardichev wrote on 27 Aug 2009 15:55:


HERE IS A QUICKIE

MIKVA IN THE MORNING THROW ALL THE TOWELS ON THE FLOOR IN THE BIN

b


Bardichev,

It's not like you to suggest throwing in the towel!  :D ;D
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: life of a lamed vavnik 28 Aug 2009 14:59 #14651

  • bardichev
Bardichev,

It's not like you to suggest throwing in the towel!   


G E V A L D I G G G G G
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Re: life of a lamed vavnik 29 Aug 2009 20:19 #14710

you know i'm listening to some really great music right now and i'm feeling reallly good  8).i was in a terrible state when i turned on the comp. now . fealt like royal garbage on shabbos,
i wanted to mess up.  i was hoping to mess up .  but i didnt'  .B"h' instead i turned on this great music ansd it had an amazing effect on me . i rarely listen to music anymore,who has time.i think i'm going to do it more. just wanted to share that . BTW  25 days!!!
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Re: life of a lamed vavnik 29 Aug 2009 21:42 #14712

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Re: life of a lamed vavnik 30 Aug 2009 01:31 #14716

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Holy Lamed,
You are in my thoughts and prayers - it's warriors like you who will bring moshiach
One Day @ a time
Keep your holy battle and know that noorah is rooting for u!
With tremendous respect for you courage
Noorah
[b]כי שבע יפול צדיק וקם[/b] 
A Tzadik is he who continues to  bounce back after he hits bottom, even a hundred times !!!!!Rav Don Segal Shlita
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Re: life of a lamed vavnik 30 Aug 2009 11:16 #14738

thanx noorah,
how 're you holding out in your struggle?
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Re: life of a lamed vavnik 30 Aug 2009 11:58 #14739

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lamed vavnik wrote on 30 Aug 2009 11:16:

thanx noorah,
how 're you holding out in your struggle?


I find that "one day @ a time" is the only way for me! So ........today with the help of Hashem I'm doing .....one day at a time.
[b]כי שבע יפול צדיק וקם[/b] 
A Tzadik is he who continues to  bounce back after he hits bottom, even a hundred times !!!!!Rav Don Segal Shlita
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Re: life of a lamed vavnik 01 Sep 2009 22:55 #15275

i don't want to write this but i hope that if i do it will help me stop next time .
i fell last night. and i threw 27 days of sobriety down the toilet.  i feel like garbage. 
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Re: life of a lamed vavnik 01 Sep 2009 22:57 #15276

i'm off til tomorrow same time.after work.
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Re: life of a lamed vavnik 01 Sep 2009 22:59 #15277

  • Tomim2B
You didn't throw anything down the toilet. You have done 27 successful days, and now you're going to pick yourself up and continue.

2B
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Re: life of a lamed vavnik 02 Sep 2009 07:15 #15302

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tomims right.
and anyway,you cant throw days down the toilet.
time is an abstract concept.
unless you have a calendar that is...
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