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21 Mar 2016 22:24
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markz
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ZemirosShabbos wrote on 01 Mar 2012 22:52:
fin der rebbe shlita:
7 ADAR THOUGHT
HAMAN WAS GLEEFUL HE COULDN’T BELIEVE HIS GOOD LUCK
THE DICE FELL ON THE WORST MONTH POSSIBLE FOR THE JEWS
ADAR
THA LAST MONTH IN THE CALENDAR
THE MONTH THAT MOISHE RABBAINU WAS NIFTAR
THIS IS GREAT
THEIR BAD LUCK
HHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
THE FACT THAT MOISHE RABBAINU WAS BORN IN ADAR ,HAMMAN DIDN’T KNOE ( I KNOW IT’S SPELLED KNOW ITS MSSPELT FOR HECHERE REASONS)
WHAT CAN WE LEARN FROM THIS??
ZUGT BARDS!
IN THE WORST MOMENT
IN THE DARKEST MOMENT THAT IS WHERE THE LIGHT THE BEGINNING OF THE YESHUA
STARTS TO SHINE FROM
SO YOU FELL
SO YOU SHMELL
SO IT FEELS MORE LIKE AN ADAR THAT IS MEIS BOI MOISHE
WHO CARES!!!
KEEP ON TRUCKING
IT IS NOILAD MOSHYAN SHEL YISROEL!!
THAT VERY FALL
THAT VERY DARK MOMENT IN THE LAST PINTELLE OF DARKNES
RIGHT BEFORE WE TURN ON THE 1,000,000 CANDLE LIGHT PROJECTOR
KEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEPONTRUCKING!
And not to forget cos כל האומר דבר בשם אומרו מביא גאולה לעולם
The Rebbe Bards said
Venahapoch Hu!!!
!!!TOK LLEMHS LLEF
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20 Mar 2016 01:31
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markz
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The greatest Mazel Tov is the fact that when we get lust under control our marriage is often on a much higher plateau!!!
The more we work on ourselves and stay with the GYE chevra, it overflows to other areas too
so
KEEP ON TRUCKING with ribbons on front!!
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10 Mar 2016 13:52
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markz
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Real Simcha, with a name like yours I would've thought you have great Shalom Bayis.
I'm really sorry to hear it's not doing so great
And positive communicati on is crucial in any relati onship and for sure in marriage! You may appreciate this post
Does she need help? If she's not interested, this link here may be enlightening
Keep on Trucking on the dirt roads, you'll be on the Highway so on
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09 Mar 2016 04:40
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markz
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Welcome
Do you have Ruach Hakodesh???
Because I am working on a nice piece to explain the whole topic, and it's not gonna go to print on my thread "Mark of Torah" till I have it all clear (the perfectionist that I am)
But since you asked I'll quote the first paragraph from that incomplete lecture, here goes
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I viewed porn. Am I normal??
We all have a lust beast inside us of various viciousness - Theres at least 2 general groups;
1) Small growl: When confronted with porn, the beast attacks
2) Huge growl: When anywhere the beast attacks
Who has the first beast? All men, without exception
(There's a negligible minority that is an exception)
There was a Sage called Reb Amram Chasida ("Pious Amram") in the Gemara (kiddushin 81), that was normal like this. When he was alone with some eye catching women his beast gave him unnatural adrenaline to access them, until he defeated the beast with a "partner call". R Meir too...
btw your friends - some may not be honest on this, and some not have come across porn, like yourself hadn't
Keep on Trucking, and if you have a moment pls read pg of my story
YOU ARE A TRUE JEW
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09 Mar 2016 03:01
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markz
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Still clean? Great to hear my friend
Where's the decency?
I gave you the complete unadulterated list of smileys and you didn't use one??
I guess other in a flatline mood, Keep on Trucking / Posting my friend
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07 Mar 2016 20:54
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Mesayin
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Sasha 2 wrote on 05 Mar 2016 18:26:
I have a random question,
Am i dreaming or this addiction is harder then other ones, for e.g. smoking, i know many guys who stopped smoking and of course it was hard for the first while but eventually they have no problem. Why is it that lusting is so much more difficult then that? Is it because there are more triggers or its much more psychological then other addictions?
Anyone have an opinion?
Hi Sasha!
I can deliver some sources from the gemara, rishoinim and achroinim about this questi on.
However, just like the mashgiach of this forum said and you agreed up on, it doesn't really matter and it might actually hurt the sobriety.
We might say "Well, it's not problem if I act out, this is a hard thing to do anyway" or "It's human nature".
The main thing we have to do is KOTTCWLWOAOW ( Keep On Trucking The Chasidisher Way Litfisher Way Or Any Other Way)
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04 Mar 2016 15:47
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Yesod
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Sounds like you're doing great, and that you have a good perspective.
I am in no way saying that spending alot of time on gye is not a helpful thing. On the contrary, it is a great idea, keep it up. You are gleaning chizuk and that is great.
I'm just saying that day counting is not a big source of strength for lots of folks, it is just counting the cash flow, but the cash flow doesn't make the cash flow, the work makes the cash flow.
So keep it up, reading, posting, sharing, asking, whatever you find gives you chizuk.
Hatzlocha
Keep it up and keep on trucking
If i can be of any help, please pm me anytime
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04 Mar 2016 14:51
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markz
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Welcome!!!
We help you pick up the pieces!
Keep on Trucking
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04 Mar 2016 02:49
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markz
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Keep on Trucking is a standard gye refrain everyone repeats, which I use a little more liberally to advertise the Free Towing
My friend struggling, if you are counting days only, I personally don't think that's considered trucking, rather more like ticking - watching the clock tick - or rather a bomb ticking, tick tick...
Explode... BAM!!!!
I don't think you want to go down that road on your bike
so whats the plan?
Posting daily is one. anything else?
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03 Mar 2016 11:24
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Sasha 2
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strugglinginpain wrote on 03 Mar 2016 05:54:
Wow, seven whole days without acting out or viewing inappropriate material!
B"H during most of the day today I felt like I didn't need or want to act out. It felt great and exhilarating. In the evening I felt the usual urges but with Hashem's help I was able to ignore them. Of course, I know that I have a long way to go to enjoy a lust-free life. But it just shows you that if you take one day at a time, it certainly adds up.
כל טוב and have pure dreams.
Wow, Great! seven WHOLE days, i remember clear as day my first week clean and how excited i was about it! Keep it up or as Markz says " Keep on trucking" 
Hatzlocha!
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02 Mar 2016 21:16
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Mesayin
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Welcome welcome! Your determination is incredible, if you keep it up than you will get there.
We have been down the road of "I already got this under control dude, I don't need anymore help" and we all got our fan belts snapped afterwards.
It's great that you are doing this to have a better relationship with your wife, it will be better if you do this to have a better relationship with yourself and Hashem, but the bottom line is keep on trucking with a good fan belt.
Chazak V'emutz
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29 Feb 2016 23:55
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markz
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OTR - the M onstah Tow Trucker of Group 173 and 174 may say it's upto you (check some of his posts)
The 90 day chart actually has clearly defined regulati ons - see this link here for the specifics at #8
Keep on Trucking my good friend!!
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28 Feb 2016 22:08
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OTR
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markz wrote on 19 Jan 2016 14:07:
bardichev wrote:
Beshalach-Shabbos SHIRA tuf shin ayin alef
KEEP ON TRUCKING
By:bardichev
This dvar Torah is dedicated to my good chver Zemiros Shabbos
May he see bracha vihatazlacha in all his endeavors
The place:Somewhere near Egypt
The time:chol hamoed
Pesach
The yidden are trapped in the deset
The Egyptian Cavalry all of it and all their legions. The entire Egyptian army are bearing down on the Jews
The jews are between a rock and a hard place
The only place they can go is forward
Slight issue homo-sapians are not amphibians.
What is there to do
No retreat
No where to turn
So the Jews do what Jews always do they pray!
Gevaldiggggg??
Nisht!
Hashem says why are you screaming
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Speak to the people and tell them to get moving
YAYISOO-ee (vayisa-uu)
KEEP ON TRUCKING!!
Fregt bards
What was wrong with prayer?
There is a huge lesson here
Huge
When facing a personal challenge
We can't say
I tried
I cried
I prayed
No no no
Do something posotive
Drive forward
Even if it means jumping into the sea
Vayisa-uu!!
Too often I see here on the forum. People are haunted by their own demons
Leave them behind you!! Ayyy they are chasing you?! Just keep on trucking!
Of course tefilla!but like Hashem says tefilla plus action
Like the Rupshotzers kugel
The rupshizer roov reb naftali horovitz talmid of the (chozeh)Lubliner
His rebbetzin was a bit stingy but a big tzaddekes
So she made a small kugel one potato. A small onion. She put it in the oven. Took out her tehillim and began to daven that the kugel should "gelung"
While she was davening. The rebbe. Grabbed a sack of potatoes some huge onoins a dozen eggs. A jug of oil. Salt feffer ahhh
He added his rebbetzin bite size kugel to a huge kugel for all the chassidim
The rebbetzin finishes davening
Looks into the oven and beams as she says ,
Naftali lOok my tefilla worked!
The rebbe says "yes your tefilla along with my massim tovim"
Keep on trucking
With
All
The
Love
In
The
World
H&H
bardichev
Good Shabbos
I wish Bards would at least do PH ONE calls. I'd call in for abardichever kumzitz, or a shot at bardys pub...
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24 Feb 2016 21:26
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markz
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Skid marks..... ________
Keep on Trucking, we're with you!!!!!
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24 Feb 2016 03:58
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BenTorah.BaalHabayis
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markz wrote on 24 Feb 2016 03:26:
BTBH
By me, l oneliness was the opportunity to act out on my base desires, it wasn't caused by l oneliness.
My base desires are under c ontrol so l oneliness doesn't exacerbate anything. Am I saying the same as you?
Probaby not - just thought to share
Feel free to email me anytime too
markzgye@gmail.com
Keep on Trucking even when all al one, were with you!!!
Thanks Markz. L oneliness for me was both a cause and an opportunity. Feeling disc onnected from my wife has always fed my desires. But I suppose this is not true l oneliness, as although she is away I d on't feel disc onnected at all. Our relati onship B"H is growing str onger. It was much worse if she simply went bed upset with me.
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